She texts after break up

[Alpheta]

Anymore advice? Im Gna call her so anytips before I do or any other advice will be appreciated lol

 

[parkthebus]

Well if you already said you would call then yeah go with that. I think just be friendly; give the impression that you're really happy. There's not really much I could say at this stage butpost how the conversation went.

 

[Alpheta]

Well if you already said you would call then yeah go with that. I think just be friendly; give the impression that you're really happy. There's not really much I could say at this stage butpost how the conversation went.

Well so I called and she tells me straight away if she can call in 30 mins. I say no I gotta be somewhere so make it quick. Shes like my friend xyz is here I can't talk. I tell her to go outside so she does and tells me that she made a mistake on Sunday etc etc and wasn't thinking straight. Said her sister likes me and supports the fact that I'm a cool guy and so wants to get back. I go we ended on Sunday so I don't know what I'm feeling like tbh. I'm kinda over you. She asks if I'm with me ex and I say lol Na just friends. She's going on about something so I tell her I need to go but I'd like to continue the convo over a coffee. She was quick to agree and asked about this Sunday which I refused and said next Sunday. She asks if I'm going to call her later and I tell her I'm really busy these few weeks so I'll just see her in a few weeks. She says surely you can call me inberween somewhere I just ignore that and tell her to tell me when she's booked her ticked to come to my place.

She asks again if I'm with my ex and I laugh and tell her that does she not want to see me next Sunday? Tell her to leave out the emotions and we'll just chill. Tell her I gotta go now and I'll see her in two weeks.


That's it. lol

 

[Alpheta]

Anyways it's funny how just 3 days have made me feel so much more better. I feel like tw year with her were like a burden. After talking to her today I don't feel the same. I don't want to unblock her iMessage. I can't be asked to read her messages or anticipate them. I don't want to get back in to that.

Maybe that's just an indicator that this relationship isn't good for me? Nonetheless I'm Gna try to make the most of this

 

[parkthebus]

I wouldn't say it wasn't good for you. I think you were probably putting in more than you were getting out of it. Same thing happened to me. After I moved out she was all lovey dovy again.