she always tells me she misses me and stuff. do i tell her 'miss you too' or do I play a game to make her want me more? if so what should i do in response to that? also when she calls me stuff like "hey stud." "hey cutie" do i just ignore it? I have a feeling if I don't acknowledge these IOI's that she might just think I'm not sexually interested in her...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
she tells me she misses me...do I just tell her I miss her too?
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This depends. Is she your gf or just some girl your talking to right now.
If it's your gf then there is no problem telling her you miss her and it may make her happy to hear you say it.
If it's just some plate your spinning just do c/f and say something along the lines of "I know". Not that exact phrase but you get the point
You can't really go wrong here since she is obviously interested in you. Just don't say "thank you" when she says it.
If it's your gf then there is no problem telling her you miss her and it may make her happy to hear you say it.
If it's just some plate your spinning just do c/f and say something along the lines of "I know". Not that exact phrase but you get the point
You can't really go wrong here since she is obviously interested in you. Just don't say "thank you" when she says it.
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just reply something like "I know" or "yeah, I get that a lot." Or "come over and show me how much you missed me."
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When she tells you "I miss you" tell her "I know."
When she says "Hey stud." you say "Yeah that's me."
When she says "I don't want a relationship right now" just shrug.
Remember for every 1 girl that sends you confusing messages like these, there's another 9 who are very clear about what they want from you. So go find your other 9 my friend.
When she says "Hey stud." you say "Yeah that's me."
When she says "I don't want a relationship right now" just shrug.
Remember for every 1 girl that sends you confusing messages like these, there's another 9 who are very clear about what they want from you. So go find your other 9 my friend.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Unless she is your gf, don't tell her you miss her (especially if she has explicitly stated that she doesn't want a relationship).baurman said:
By prompting you like this, she is trying to gauge your interest in terms of wanting a relationship (despite knowing you currently don't want one and her saying she doesn't either).
She is testing you. If she really isn't looking for a R right now, she wants to know you want one with her (hence the hot and cold).