she always tells me she misses me and stuff. do i tell her 'miss you too' or do I play a game to make her want me more? if so what should i do in response to that? also when she calls me stuff like "hey stud." "hey cutie" do i just ignore it? I have a feeling if I don't acknowledge these IOI's that she might just think I'm not sexually interested in her...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
she tells me she misses me...do I just tell her I miss her too?
- Thread starter baurman
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This depends. Is she your gf or just some girl your talking to right now.
If it's your gf then there is no problem telling her you miss her and it may make her happy to hear you say it.
If it's just some plate your spinning just do c/f and say something along the lines of "I know". Not that exact phrase but you get the point
You can't really go wrong here since she is obviously interested in you. Just don't say "thank you" when she says it.
If it's your gf then there is no problem telling her you miss her and it may make her happy to hear you say it.
If it's just some plate your spinning just do c/f and say something along the lines of "I know". Not that exact phrase but you get the point
You can't really go wrong here since she is obviously interested in you. Just don't say "thank you" when she says it.
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just reply something like "I know" or "yeah, I get that a lot." Or "come over and show me how much you missed me."
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When she tells you "I miss you" tell her "I know."
When she says "Hey stud." you say "Yeah that's me."
When she says "I don't want a relationship right now" just shrug.
Remember for every 1 girl that sends you confusing messages like these, there's another 9 who are very clear about what they want from you. So go find your other 9 my friend.
When she says "Hey stud." you say "Yeah that's me."
When she says "I don't want a relationship right now" just shrug.
Remember for every 1 girl that sends you confusing messages like these, there's another 9 who are very clear about what they want from you. So go find your other 9 my friend.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Have you feed her the baur MONSTER yet?
Purple-Haze
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Unless she is your gf, don't tell her you miss her (especially if she has explicitly stated that she doesn't want a relationship).baurman said:
By prompting you like this, she is trying to gauge your interest in terms of wanting a relationship (despite knowing you currently don't want one and her saying she doesn't either).
She is testing you. If she really isn't looking for a R right now, she wants to know you want one with her (hence the hot and cold).