"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she tells her friend...

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shagnscoob

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theres a frehsman girl at school that i was flirting with, and she was responding for the most part, espcially we really were getting into it, but my friend was going to ask this other girl out and we were thinking of doing a double date. so his girl said she had stuff to do, so i didnt ask the girl i was talking about earlier, and her friend brought it up wiht her and she said to her friend something along the lines of 'hes cool but i dont like him like that'

thats what her friend told me, now, i made a rule about not listening to anyone except the girl herself, but im wondering, what would you guys do? give up? or continue to show her the man you are?
 

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Continue to show her how great you are? I don't think you've even started. Double-dates are a nono and don't give up. Just because it starts looking tough doesn't mean it's time to bail.
 
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Ah, double-dates really aren't my forte'.



Either way, don't give up on a chick just because her friend told you something.(Girl's like to gossip. It's a proven fact.) Like Lik said, you really haven't even showed her the guy you really can be. The main reason why she probably said she doesn't like you like that is because she doesn't know you!

Oh yea, and if you're going to ask her out on a date, make sure it's not with your buddy and his girl. If the girl's are friends, there's about an 85% chance it'll end in disaster. Just a fair warning ;]
 
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thanks for the tips on double-dating!

well ive always had this rule about getting the info from the girl herself not her friends, so i plan to move ahead as though nothing happened. she messages me online and we STILL flirt and stuff =/
i guess i might have to kick it up and bring some serious kino into play
 
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