"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she tells her friend...

shagnscoob

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theres a frehsman girl at school that i was flirting with, and she was responding for the most part, espcially we really were getting into it, but my friend was going to ask this other girl out and we were thinking of doing a double date. so his girl said she had stuff to do, so i didnt ask the girl i was talking about earlier, and her friend brought it up wiht her and she said to her friend something along the lines of 'hes cool but i dont like him like that'

thats what her friend told me, now, i made a rule about not listening to anyone except the girl herself, but im wondering, what would you guys do? give up? or continue to show her the man you are?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LikRetsam

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Continue to show her how great you are? I don't think you've even started. Double-dates are a nono and don't give up. Just because it starts looking tough doesn't mean it's time to bail.
 

Jerky Boi

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Ah, double-dates really aren't my forte'.



Either way, don't give up on a chick just because her friend told you something.(Girl's like to gossip. It's a proven fact.) Like Lik said, you really haven't even showed her the guy you really can be. The main reason why she probably said she doesn't like you like that is because she doesn't know you!

Oh yea, and if you're going to ask her out on a date, make sure it's not with your buddy and his girl. If the girl's are friends, there's about an 85% chance it'll end in disaster. Just a fair warning ;]
 

shagnscoob

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thanks for the tips on double-dating!

well ive always had this rule about getting the info from the girl herself not her friends, so i plan to move ahead as though nothing happened. she messages me online and we STILL flirt and stuff =/
i guess i might have to kick it up and bring some serious kino into play
 
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