"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shagnscoob

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theres a frehsman girl at school that i was flirting with, and she was responding for the most part, espcially we really were getting into it, but my friend was going to ask this other girl out and we were thinking of doing a double date. so his girl said she had stuff to do, so i didnt ask the girl i was talking about earlier, and her friend brought it up wiht her and she said to her friend something along the lines of 'hes cool but i dont like him like that'

thats what her friend told me, now, i made a rule about not listening to anyone except the girl herself, but im wondering, what would you guys do? give up? or continue to show her the man you are?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Continue to show her how great you are? I don't think you've even started. Double-dates are a nono and don't give up. Just because it starts looking tough doesn't mean it's time to bail.
 
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Jerky Boi

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Ah, double-dates really aren't my forte'.



Either way, don't give up on a chick just because her friend told you something.(Girl's like to gossip. It's a proven fact.) Like Lik said, you really haven't even showed her the guy you really can be. The main reason why she probably said she doesn't like you like that is because she doesn't know you!

Oh yea, and if you're going to ask her out on a date, make sure it's not with your buddy and his girl. If the girl's are friends, there's about an 85% chance it'll end in disaster. Just a fair warning ;]
 
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shagnscoob

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thanks for the tips on double-dating!

well ive always had this rule about getting the info from the girl herself not her friends, so i plan to move ahead as though nothing happened. she messages me online and we STILL flirt and stuff =/
i guess i might have to kick it up and bring some serious kino into play
 
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