So basically theres this girl that works at a candy shop near my house. I met her there when i was going to buy some candy with some friends, and again a second time. im almost positive theres a connection between us. We talked for about 5 minutes once, but i didnt ask for her number. Would it be weird to go back this weekend and say something like "Hey its me. I'm back again. I just wanted to tell you that when i left last week, i was kind of disappointed in myself, because i didnt even ask you your name. I thought about it during the week, and said to myself "this girls seems to special to let her slip away" so i decided to come back and ask you for your number so we can go out sometime and get to know each other better." Would that be creepy to do that? or would it sweep her off her feet? Or would it be even better to just go back with some friends to buy some candy, see her there again, spark up another conversation, and then ask her for her number?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She stuffs
- Thread starter saber101
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
saber101 said:
You're having one-itis in my mind it seems......
When ever you meet her again , ..start normal conversation. Dont use any of the lines you've mentioned . You'll seriously end up looking like an AFC. Ask for her name in end when you have to end the convo by saying something like" I really gotta go , why dont you give me your number?"
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Why is the name of this thread "she stuffs"? I thought you just found out your girlfriend was stuffing her bra or something.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i thought kleenex too.The Shocker said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.