So basically theres this girl that works at a candy shop near my house. I met her there when i was going to buy some candy with some friends, and again a second time. im almost positive theres a connection between us. We talked for about 5 minutes once, but i didnt ask for her number. Would it be weird to go back this weekend and say something like "Hey its me. I'm back again. I just wanted to tell you that when i left last week, i was kind of disappointed in myself, because i didnt even ask you your name. I thought about it during the week, and said to myself "this girls seems to special to let her slip away" so i decided to come back and ask you for your number so we can go out sometime and get to know each other better." Would that be creepy to do that? or would it sweep her off her feet? Or would it be even better to just go back with some friends to buy some candy, see her there again, spark up another conversation, and then ask her for her number?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She stuffs
- Thread starter saber101
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
saber101 said:
You're having one-itis in my mind it seems......
When ever you meet her again , ..start normal conversation. Dont use any of the lines you've mentioned . You'll seriously end up looking like an AFC. Ask for her name in end when you have to end the convo by saying something like" I really gotta go , why dont you give me your number?"
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Why is the name of this thread "she stuffs"? I thought you just found out your girlfriend was stuffing her bra or something.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i thought kleenex too.The Shocker said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.