So basically theres this girl that works at a candy shop near my house. I met her there when i was going to buy some candy with some friends, and again a second time. im almost positive theres a connection between us. We talked for about 5 minutes once, but i didnt ask for her number. Would it be weird to go back this weekend and say something like "Hey its me. I'm back again. I just wanted to tell you that when i left last week, i was kind of disappointed in myself, because i didnt even ask you your name. I thought about it during the week, and said to myself "this girls seems to special to let her slip away" so i decided to come back and ask you for your number so we can go out sometime and get to know each other better." Would that be creepy to do that? or would it sweep her off her feet? Or would it be even better to just go back with some friends to buy some candy, see her there again, spark up another conversation, and then ask her for her number?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She stuffs
- Thread starter saber101
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
saber101 said:
You're having one-itis in my mind it seems......
When ever you meet her again , ..start normal conversation. Dont use any of the lines you've mentioned . You'll seriously end up looking like an AFC. Ask for her name in end when you have to end the convo by saying something like" I really gotta go , why dont you give me your number?"
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Why is the name of this thread "she stuffs"? I thought you just found out your girlfriend was stuffing her bra or something.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i thought kleenex too.The Shocker said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.