Master Don Juan
- Jun 21, 2017
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What's going on guys
Looking at my previous thread (first ever one) you will see I have been on and off with this particular chick for around a year and half - LTR that reduced to seeing etc because of her going back and from her ex
We have recently started to meet again and F*ck etc go out for dates since around December last year
Long story short, it was my birthday Saturday - bumped into a friend of mine (female) who i hadn't seen for a number of years - she explained she couldn't keep it from me due to our loyalties and that my ex and my very good friend slept together whilst we were together
It was a night where we all went out for drinks and i introduced her to my friends (I fell ill) and went home half way through the night - she got the hump and explained she would be staying with my friends and staying out saying "It's my weekend off I'm not wasting it"
I left - i called the friend in question later on in the evening who said "Don't worry, I will look after her mate you have nothing to worry about with me here"
Day after called me in the morning to say he had put her in a taxi and she went home in the early hours, and that was that.
Turns out that wasn't the case, she went back to his house and f**ked him
I have confronted them both - they lied at first but the truth come out in the end.
Her response: "This wouldn't have happened if you didn't leave me in the pub- you left me high and dry"
"It happened, we instantly regretted it, decided never to speak about it again, not about me having a lot to lose but more so him having a lot to lose so we forgot about it"
"What can you do to me literally? Don't even think about threatening me because you cant do anything, your forgetting how much I know about you"
"Dont do anything stupid im not worth it"
"We were only seeing each other"
I must add this was around 9 months of us dating.
His response: "I cant change it, its happened, she put it on me, i was wasted, you put me on the spot and i couldn't admit to it when you called me, I'm sorry, where do we go from here"
"She didn't stay the night, look I'm gonna forget the details its going to hurt you"
Our mutual friends are disgusted, he lied to them all.
I am infuriated, i have never felt as sick, at the moment I'm struggling to deal with it and I keep having spurts where I feel I need to gain some revenge in some way or another, I have told him I'm going to roll him over when I see him, as for her we work together so I need to be more calculated with that approach
I would never have known.... they have kept a lid on this for so long - the lies, how has she sat there with this on her conscious for so long.
I am grateful for that friend of mine for at least being loyal and upfront with me. I'm so angry
Raw deal man it happens.
3 things to a piece of mind.
In that order. And a few shots of bourbon.