"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She sees me like her "brother"

anonymousguy

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Hello,

I know this sweet, friendly and attractive girl. And she last told me that she saw me like her "brother". What could she ever meant with that?

I don't know if I'm already in the friend zone with her or she's interested in me.
I have a suspicion it's the first one, but I can't be sure ;)

Greetings,
anonymousguy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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08aisaac

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She is saying this, because if you were to hook up with her, that would be incest, and so wrong.

Move on.
 

brenbaus

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Your stuck in the friend zone dude, but you can use her to make your game better (and who dosent need that?). Flirt with her, find out what works with similar girls, and if you play your cards the right way, you can get her to start dating you, then take it farther
 

Maeisgood

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Use touching, or "kino" and as the Man, you have to take the iniative and push the envelope. Don't go too far and don't be flatter her too much. Be sort of ****y and aloof and complement her on one small thing she obviously takes pride in. Flirt with other girls, and make sure she knows it. "Show" her how desirable you are. Don't "tell" it. Just like English class.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by brenbaus
Your stuck in the friend zone dude, but you can use her to make your game better (and who dosent need that?). Flirt with her, find out what works with similar girls, and if you play your cards the right way, you can get her to start dating you, then take it farther
 

Smooth as Anything

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Perhaps having a deep conversation regarding incest may be in your favor.
 

Big Eee Zee

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i had that happen. For me, it meant there was no chance. but I did become best friends with her. we were so tight, and she helped me out at shytty points in my life.

I don't think you stand a chance, tho.
 

Phat

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lets see... stop treatin her like ur sister. maybe that would work.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Don't bother, it's done.

Even if you were to somehow miraculously change her view, it wouldn't be worth it, and would be very awkward afterwards.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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