“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She sees me like her "brother"

anonymousguy

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Hello,

I know this sweet, friendly and attractive girl. And she last told me that she saw me like her "brother". What could she ever meant with that?

I don't know if I'm already in the friend zone with her or she's interested in me.
I have a suspicion it's the first one, but I can't be sure ;)

Greetings,
anonymousguy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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08aisaac

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She is saying this, because if you were to hook up with her, that would be incest, and so wrong.

Move on.
 

brenbaus

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Your stuck in the friend zone dude, but you can use her to make your game better (and who dosent need that?). Flirt with her, find out what works with similar girls, and if you play your cards the right way, you can get her to start dating you, then take it farther
 

Maeisgood

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Use touching, or "kino" and as the Man, you have to take the iniative and push the envelope. Don't go too far and don't be flatter her too much. Be sort of ****y and aloof and complement her on one small thing she obviously takes pride in. Flirt with other girls, and make sure she knows it. "Show" her how desirable you are. Don't "tell" it. Just like English class.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by brenbaus
Your stuck in the friend zone dude, but you can use her to make your game better (and who dosent need that?). Flirt with her, find out what works with similar girls, and if you play your cards the right way, you can get her to start dating you, then take it farther
 

Smooth as Anything

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Perhaps having a deep conversation regarding incest may be in your favor.
 

Big Eee Zee

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i had that happen. For me, it meant there was no chance. but I did become best friends with her. we were so tight, and she helped me out at shytty points in my life.

I don't think you stand a chance, tho.
 

Phat

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lets see... stop treatin her like ur sister. maybe that would work.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Don't bother, it's done.

Even if you were to somehow miraculously change her view, it wouldn't be worth it, and would be very awkward afterwards.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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