"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She sees me like her "brother"

anonymousguy

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Hello,

I know this sweet, friendly and attractive girl. And she last told me that she saw me like her "brother". What could she ever meant with that?

I don't know if I'm already in the friend zone with her or she's interested in me.
I have a suspicion it's the first one, but I can't be sure ;)

Greetings,
anonymousguy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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08aisaac

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She is saying this, because if you were to hook up with her, that would be incest, and so wrong.

Move on.
 

brenbaus

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Your stuck in the friend zone dude, but you can use her to make your game better (and who dosent need that?). Flirt with her, find out what works with similar girls, and if you play your cards the right way, you can get her to start dating you, then take it farther
 

Maeisgood

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Use touching, or "kino" and as the Man, you have to take the iniative and push the envelope. Don't go too far and don't be flatter her too much. Be sort of ****y and aloof and complement her on one small thing she obviously takes pride in. Flirt with other girls, and make sure she knows it. "Show" her how desirable you are. Don't "tell" it. Just like English class.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by brenbaus
Your stuck in the friend zone dude, but you can use her to make your game better (and who dosent need that?). Flirt with her, find out what works with similar girls, and if you play your cards the right way, you can get her to start dating you, then take it farther
 

Smooth as Anything

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Perhaps having a deep conversation regarding incest may be in your favor.
 

Big Eee Zee

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i had that happen. For me, it meant there was no chance. but I did become best friends with her. we were so tight, and she helped me out at shytty points in my life.

I don't think you stand a chance, tho.
 

Phat

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lets see... stop treatin her like ur sister. maybe that would work.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Don't bother, it's done.

Even if you were to somehow miraculously change her view, it wouldn't be worth it, and would be very awkward afterwards.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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