She is going back to school and working. She pretty much told me that she's going to be working 5-6 days a week, but then on her day off will be used for Studying. We're going out tomorrow night and I just feel that I need to tell her that things won't work out between us. I really like her, and I'm sure she likes me too. But with me working 50-60 hours a week and with her going back to shcool/holding a job. I just can't see us working things out. What would I be able to tell her about this situation? We've had sex and everything. I just want to be exclusive with her - but I'm not asking her because I'm waiting for her to ask Me. Unless I just ask her and see what happens because if she doesn't want to be exclusive with me then I'll be happy to just move on to a girl who isn't so busy. What would be a good way to ask her? Like just casually say it like "Are you serious about us?" and just see what she says?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She seems too busy for us to be in a relationship
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