"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She seems too busy for us to be in a relationship

baurman

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She is going back to school and working. She pretty much told me that she's going to be working 5-6 days a week, but then on her day off will be used for Studying. We're going out tomorrow night and I just feel that I need to tell her that things won't work out between us. I really like her, and I'm sure she likes me too. But with me working 50-60 hours a week and with her going back to shcool/holding a job. I just can't see us working things out. What would I be able to tell her about this situation? We've had sex and everything. I just want to be exclusive with her - but I'm not asking her because I'm waiting for her to ask Me. Unless I just ask her and see what happens because if she doesn't want to be exclusive with me then I'll be happy to just move on to a girl who isn't so busy. What would be a good way to ask her? Like just casually say it like "Are you serious about us?" and just see what she says?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuan11

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baurman said:
I just can't see us working things out. What would I be able to tell her about this situation? We've had sex and everything.

What is "everything"? Isn't sex everything? What more is there than sex with a girl?
 
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