She is going back to school and working. She pretty much told me that she's going to be working 5-6 days a week, but then on her day off will be used for Studying. We're going out tomorrow night and I just feel that I need to tell her that things won't work out between us. I really like her, and I'm sure she likes me too. But with me working 50-60 hours a week and with her going back to shcool/holding a job. I just can't see us working things out. What would I be able to tell her about this situation? We've had sex and everything. I just want to be exclusive with her - but I'm not asking her because I'm waiting for her to ask Me. Unless I just ask her and see what happens because if she doesn't want to be exclusive with me then I'll be happy to just move on to a girl who isn't so busy. What would be a good way to ask her? Like just casually say it like "Are you serious about us?" and just see what she says?
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She seems too busy for us to be in a relationship
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