She is going back to school and working. She pretty much told me that she's going to be working 5-6 days a week, but then on her day off will be used for Studying. We're going out tomorrow night and I just feel that I need to tell her that things won't work out between us. I really like her, and I'm sure she likes me too. But with me working 50-60 hours a week and with her going back to shcool/holding a job. I just can't see us working things out. What would I be able to tell her about this situation? We've had sex and everything. I just want to be exclusive with her - but I'm not asking her because I'm waiting for her to ask Me. Unless I just ask her and see what happens because if she doesn't want to be exclusive with me then I'll be happy to just move on to a girl who isn't so busy. What would be a good way to ask her? Like just casually say it like "Are you serious about us?" and just see what she says?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She seems too busy for us to be in a relationship
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