"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she says 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

big weezy

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a girl i dated a while ago said to me 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

she was telling me how her ex-bf had this book and read it and she read some of it and thought it was stupid. was this a reference to me that my game was awful and needed improving? lol she said it twice to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Damn, dude.

How many threads you gonna start today? You going for a world record?
 

jacob

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big weezy said:
a girl i dated a while ago said to me 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

she was telling me how her ex-bf had this book and read it and she read some of it and thought it was stupid. was this a reference to me that my game was awful and needed improving? lol she said it twice to me.
I'll bet you're hinting to her that you're reading about "attraction techniques", maybe not directly, but I guarantee she knows that you're trying to manipulate her feelings and this is a huge turn off. lol

Don't ever let a girl know you're reading about this kinda stuff. You have to come off natural, or she'll percieve you as a poser.
 
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