"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she says 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

big weezy

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a girl i dated a while ago said to me 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

she was telling me how her ex-bf had this book and read it and she read some of it and thought it was stupid. was this a reference to me that my game was awful and needed improving? lol she said it twice to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Damn, dude.

How many threads you gonna start today? You going for a world record?
 

jacob

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big weezy said:
a girl i dated a while ago said to me 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

she was telling me how her ex-bf had this book and read it and she read some of it and thought it was stupid. was this a reference to me that my game was awful and needed improving? lol she said it twice to me.
I'll bet you're hinting to her that you're reading about "attraction techniques", maybe not directly, but I guarantee she knows that you're trying to manipulate her feelings and this is a huge turn off. lol

Don't ever let a girl know you're reading about this kinda stuff. You have to come off natural, or she'll percieve you as a poser.
 
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