"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she says 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

big weezy

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a girl i dated a while ago said to me 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

she was telling me how her ex-bf had this book and read it and she read some of it and thought it was stupid. was this a reference to me that my game was awful and needed improving? lol she said it twice to me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Damn, dude.

How many threads you gonna start today? You going for a world record?
 

jacob

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big weezy said:
a girl i dated a while ago said to me 'why dont you read 'the game' '?

she was telling me how her ex-bf had this book and read it and she read some of it and thought it was stupid. was this a reference to me that my game was awful and needed improving? lol she said it twice to me.
I'll bet you're hinting to her that you're reading about "attraction techniques", maybe not directly, but I guarantee she knows that you're trying to manipulate her feelings and this is a huge turn off. lol

Don't ever let a girl know you're reading about this kinda stuff. You have to come off natural, or she'll percieve you as a poser.
 
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