She says I'm immature and ****y

[Thebestthereeveris]

I'm talking to this banging asian with red hair
Slim petite pretty face and likes raves. And on top of that she says she doesn't want monogamy. Now if you thought shes a sex freak who wants a crazy **** you thought the same as me. So I ran a ****y funny game cause that's what works with girls like this. Then she says she's not looking to sleep around just date. I'm like okay.....sure .... Then I tell her dates I go on involve picking them up going to in n out then ****ing her in the back of my car then dropping them off. Usually girls like this like that cause it conveys I get laid a lot and I'm non attached and fun. But she shut me down again then drops that I'm immature and ****y and it's not going to work. What in the ****.im pretty stumped what are your guys thoughts I'm

 

[obelisk]

Your actions are miscalibrated to her responses. You're assuming attraction when she's merely providing you attention and your ****y funny game is not emotionally resonating with her. The confidence you are suggesting as described is not actually coming across as confidence and it shows in her reactions. Lose the ego and pay attention to how she is reacting to your game and technique.

 

[BaronOfHair]

im pretty stumped what are your guys thoughts

I presume the red hair on this banging asian is dyed, rather than natural... That's your cue to flee faster than a village full of gypsies flees from an approaching Panzer division

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I presume the red hair on this banging asian is dyed, rather than natural... That's your cue to flee faster than a village full of gypsies flees from an approaching Panzer division

Natural redheads aren't much better but agreed

And a pint-sized frame to add to the insecurity issues

Could also be one of those ethical-non-monogamy weirdos looking for cuckolds as well.

Looks like screening could be the bigger issue here.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi BestThereEverIs,
I wouldn't be poking the tip of my umbrella into a Red Haired Polyamerous Asians pleasure cave,let alone any personal appendages!

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Hi BestThereEverIs,
I wouldn't be poking the tip of my umbrella into a Red Haired Polyamerous Asians pleasure cave,let alone any personal appendages!

And keep in mind it doesn't rain in the Outback.

 

[Tilex]

Wants a relationship?
Doesn't want a relationship?
Wants a 1 night stand?
Doesn't want a 1 night stand?

There's too much negotiation going on, which is a turn off for women.
You took what she said at face value and used 50 shades of grey humor.
I would just ignore everything she said and try to get physical with her in person. Dirty humor gets misinterpreted through texting.

 

[ValiantMale]

No disrespect, but you have no game. I'd try working on how you approach women and situations like this and learn some game.. It sounds like you're too eager for sex and almost begging for it in her mind.. What a turnoff that can be to most chicks.. Gross.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why do you care what a single woman thinks? Nothing you do will very work with 100% in life in anything that you do.

It's about probabilities over large numbers not a single person

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Your actions are miscalibrated to her responses.

Pretty much. Kind of like a salesman who launches into his pitch without qualifying the customer first or even finding out of the "customer" is even passively interested in the product.

 

[Chow Mein]

I’m assuming the 4 asterisks are for c0ck, maybe lay off that to help with further female interactions

 

[Vanderdonck]

I'm talking to this banging asian with red hair
Slim petite pretty face and likes raves. And on top of that she says she doesn't want monogamy. Now if you thought shes a sex freak who wants a crazy **** you thought the same as me. So I ran a ****y funny game cause that's what works with girls like this. Then she says she's not looking to sleep around just date. I'm like okay.....sure .... Then I tell her dates I go on involve picking them up going to in n out then ****ing her in the back of my car then dropping them off. Usually girls like this like that cause it conveys I get laid a lot and I'm non attached and fun. But she shut me down again then drops that I'm immature and ****y and it's not going to work. What in the ****.im pretty stumped what are your guys thoughts I'm

Take it as a compliment. More importantly though, stop trying to validate yourself to girls. You entered her frame with your response. In the future agree and double down on what she says instead of trying to prove what a stud you are.

*Edit, didn't realize this was from two months back, but I'll leave my response for future readers.

 

[Gamisch]

Take it as a compliment. More importantly though, stop trying to validate yourself to girls. You entered her frame with your response. In the future agree and double down on what she says instead of trying to prove what a stud you are.

*Edit, didn't realize this was from two months back, but I'll leave my response for future readers.

Nah, OP been too direct. I sometimes make the same mistake. You gotta be somewhat subtle about blowing her back out. It's (logically) a VERY thin line between seduction and sl+tshaming.

The power of p00sy is so strong we dudes tend to willfully forget how FECKING CRAZY women really are!!

 

[Divorced w 3]

You’re trying to eat soup with a fork

 

[Barrister]

Your initial MO may make sense if you matched with her off of OLD and (something like Tinder) -- where the goal is clearly just sex. Even then, you can't use a sledgehammer to get every single job done, which is what you are trying to do. In my experience, most women are more turned on if you maintain some mystery about yourself and qualify them with charm and attention. You then mix in some kino here and there and when things clearly are warming up, begin dropping some sexual innuendo their way. Alcohol (in moderation of course) can expedite this process.

If you just come out and tell them you want to fvck their brains out, this may work with the true crazies. And maybe that is what you thought this chick was (an Asian with red hair certainly qualifies on the surface). Most women are going to dry up from that though. Where is the mystery or challenge? That is what women like and what they want in the initial interaction.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Your initial MO may make sense if you matched with her off of OLD and (something like Tinder) -- where the goal is clearly just sex. Even then, you can't use a sledgehammer to get every single job done, which is what you are trying to do. In my experience, most women are more turned on if you maintain some mystery about yourself and qualify them with charm and attention. You then mix in some kino here and there and when things clearly are warming up, begin dropping some sexual innuendo their way. Alcohol (in moderation of course) can expedite this process.

If you just come out and tell them you want to fvck their brains out, this may work with the true crazies. And maybe that is what you thought this chick was (an Asian with red hair certainly qualifies on the surface). Most women are going to dry up from that though. Where is the mystery or challenge? That is what women like and what they want in the initial interaction.

I agree 100% and my game used to be like that. Tbh ive gotten a lot of success being full blown direct that I continue to do it. it has drawbacks though of course.

 

[darksprezzatura]

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