"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I meet this girl at a bar not to long ago and got her number. She really seemed to be into me - considering she approached me. Anyway, long story short, I had text here a few times, and after a few 'no replies,' she told me she's going through a horrible break up. I played it cool and text her a few days later only to receive the "she's sorry but she doesn't think I'm her type" reply. My question is this, do I: A) still pursue her? If so, what would you suggest on trying? Or B) delete her number and forget about her? Lastly, I appreciate any advice as to how I can stay a way from situation like this in the future.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Buy her flowers to convince her you are her type.
 

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amoka said:
Buy her flowers to convince her you are her type.
deliver the flowers to her at work. wear a tuxedo just to make sure she knows how much you care. make sure you do this IMMEDIATELY do not wait.
 

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LikeASuperstar said:
-I had text her a few times,
-and after a few 'no replies,' she told me she's going through a horrible break up.
-text her a few days later
-only to receive the "she's sorry but she doesn't think I'm her type"

My question is this, do I:

A) still pursue her?
B) forget about her?
I didn't get straight A's university but I would go with option B
 

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Bring her flowers?! Yeah, uh... Shes just some girl I met at a bar and I have no idea where she works or anything of the sort. Any other suggestions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LikeASuperstar said:
I had text here a few times, and after a few 'no replies,' she told me she's going through a horrible break up. I played it cool and text her a few days later only to receive the "she's sorry but she doesn't think I'm her type" reply.
Go with option B. She made this really easy for you by communicating to you that she's not interested by ignoring your texts and then straight telling you that you're not her type. Continuing the pursuit is only going to freak her out.
 

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Consider yourself lucky.

Why? Most girls don't have the decency to tell a guy straight up he's not her type. This makes you waste alot of time since you don't know if she's interested or not.

This girl told you straight up. So delete the number, move on. And consider yourself lucky at least you KNOW, and don't need to waste any more time pursuing her.
 

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LikeASuperstar said:
Bring her flowers?! Yeah, uh... Shes just some girl I met at a bar and I have no idea where she works or anything of the sort. Any other suggestions?
I think he was perhaps being sarcastic. Just maybe.
 

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LikeASuperstar said:
Bring her flowers?! Yeah, uh... Shes just some girl I met at a bar and I have no idea where she works or anything of the sort. Any other suggestions?

Send her back a text telling her that you're not like all the other guys and that you're looking for that one special girl to make your life complete. Text her each day and ask her for a second chance and tell her that you're willing to fight for her love. Tell her that you understand that she's going through a tough break up and that you're willing to wait for her, even years if necessary.
 

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LikeASuperstar said:
Bring her flowers?! Yeah, uh... Shes just some girl I met at a bar and I have no idea where she works or anything of the sort. Any other suggestions?
Buy her a diamond ring and text her: Maybe you would like to use me for money supply. No doubt she will be back in a minute!
Seriously, forget about her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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