"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she said she had a bf, but said she was lonely. meaning?

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whats up all?

long time no post,but now im back.

so ive been working on this girl.

we had a convo, she mentioned she went to some city 4 hours away for the weekend, i asked her why and she says:

her: ive got a man up there, i just get so lonely down here.

sure when a woman mentions her bf, it means she's not interested, but y would the skank mention her loneliness? i reckon she's just a FB for this guy. anyone think its game over and move on? or is she up for grabs?

ps. what would have been a good respone to the above?

thnx
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Response to something like that? It was a pleasure knowing you.

If she says that she's lonely down where ever you live, and she has a bf, it means she's really attracted to him.
 
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thanks for replying

i see what you mean

on one hand she could be SO attracted to this guy that she's willing to travel 4 hours to eat his ****

on the other, it could mean that she's so desperate for **** that that she's willing to travel that far, BUT if another **** was in a nearby vincinity (i.e mine), she would decide to travel to that **** instead.

thoughts?
 
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It could work. She also might have said it to make you an emotional puppet to look towards when she's not with her boyfriend. If she said "But I'm so lonely down here," to any other men, he would have ate it all up and been her dog. What I would do? Show her who's in charge.
 
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My personal take on a situation like this, could go one of two ways

1. She wants you.

2. She's got a guy showering her with attention "up there", and now she wants her own little "attention monkey" down where you are.

Now I don't really know the woman (obviously), but I'd be wary of a woman that'd cheat on her b/f/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ive got a man up there, i just get so lonely down here.
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What i get from that is : "I've got a guy i can screw/have fun with up there, wish i had one here too"
In my uneducated opinion i think she's up for grabs.
 
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In my opinion, if she was trying to imply that she misses him and is taken she would have said she misses "him".

Come on, who's going to say, "i'm lonely here" when they're really meaning, I just miss my boyfriend. Unless she's a major tease, this to me, means she is looking for someone to hang out with where you are or more...
 
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Read the body language. I’m pretty new here but this seems to be the general theme. We can’t really give accurate opinions based only on what she said. Words don’t mean sh!t when it comes to girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hmm.....I agree with everyone else. She wants someone to hang around with.

She did not mention she misses her bf instead that she is lonely.

So what would everyones response would be to this? or How would you go about this?

You don't want to be a dog, but then should you show interest?
 
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MooseGod said:
did she actually call him her "boyfriend" or just say literally that she's "got a man up there"?
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nah she didnt say "boyfriend", literally "ive got a man up there". i reckon thats important, i think they're just FBs and she's just enjoying some tender love from a tender penis in the short run. my impression is that she's looking for a long term relationship. i cant provide one, but i can certainly be penis donor. LOL.

i still find it surprising though, she is without doubt a HB9, very social and im not to sure why she cant find a man right here and has to travel 4 hours for loving.

anyway when she mentioned it i just cut the convo thread and talked about something. ive read that asking around makes u afc.

lolz
 
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