She said looks is 8/9 and personality is a 4 how do I improve?

[Webb91]

Hi guys. A girl I have seen a few times came out with ‘if i am being honest your looks is an 8/9 and your personality is a 4 but it used to be an 8’ she told me this on snapchat. I clearly need to work on personality and my frame. I am going wrong somewhere. Any tips. Thanks

 

[Alvafe]

first mistake is you care about a random chick think of you

 

[Focal core]

She simply said she isnt interested, that doesnt mean her personality is greater than yours, it could be lower than you.. Get rid of her.

 

[sosousage]

it means you are 6/10 look-wise but 9/10 for her (before Chad comes)


boost your look m8

 

[Webb91]

She will still snapchat me sexy pics but she won’t carry on a convo any longer than a few messages back and forth when she had really high interest as she told me before. Guess I need to work on stuff and admit defeat she has someone better haha.

 

[Serenity]

I am going wrong somewhere. Any tips. Thanks

I don't know. I know nothing about you. Any idea what about your personality might be unattractive? The other responses seem like knee-jerk reactions.

 

[Focal core]

She will still snapchat me sexy pics but she won’t carry on a convo any longer than a few messages back and forth when she had really high interest as she told me before. Guess I need to work on stuff and admit defeat she has someone better haha.

You are used for attention, and validation(sending sexy pic for praise) at the same time invalidate you, make yourself feel lower, its a manipulation for attention seeker use on man. women like that always has lower emotional level than you.. I wont worry about it. Dont put yourself lower than her.

-Case closed-

 

[Mike32ct]

You’re all set with 8/9 looks.

Personality is optional in that case.

 

[RangerMIke]

It all depends on what you want. If all you want is hooking up, you are fine. How you 'look' is the most important, so you are fine. If some random chick doesn't like your personality all that means is you two don't fit... so what. She is one of billions of chicks in the world, very good chance there are several million that do fit.

My advice just keep looking... date more chicks and weed this one out.

 

[Spaz]

I've had girls called me worse then that, I just switch to other girls.

Ignore them.

Side note: You should only be worried when your real life friends are saying it more then a few times.

 

[marmel75]

She will still snapchat me sexy pics but she won’t carry on a convo any longer than a few messages back and forth when she had really high interest as she told me before. Guess I need to work on stuff and admit defeat she has someone better haha.

If she is that attracted to looks then just tell her to come over and fvck. No need to worry about personality with that.

To me it sounds as if she is insecure with your looks so she is trying to give you a male version of a neg to knock you down a few pegs.

 

[SoSuave666]

In my experience personality isn’t nearly as important to women as looks.

Actually, if she means you are a 4/10 personality wise because you’re an *******, it’s all good. If she means it’s because you’re a beta silent follower, then that’s a problem.

Because she is showing signs of low interest she’s either lying about your looks or she thinks you fall into the beta category. Either way, not good.

 

[marmel75]

In my experience personality isn’t nearly as important to women as looks.

Actually, if she means you are a 4/10 personality wise because you’re an *******, it’s all good. If she means it’s because you’re a beta silent follower, then that’s a problem.

Because she is showing signs of low interest she’s either lying about your looks or she thinks you fall into the beta category. Either way, not good.

But yet she is still sending him sexy pics without him asking

 

[lamath]

Dont waste your time on her
Delete/block/ignore

Making a thread about this make me think you need some education
Go read dj bible

 

[SoSuave666]

But yet she is still sending him sexy pics without him asking

I wouldn’t say that means much. I can meet a woman online dating and essentially convince her to give me nudes within an hour. It’s like posting a pic on Instagram for women these days, all they want is likes.

If a chick sends you nudes and you respond “ohhh bb so sexy me like <insert emoji>” you have validated her and that’s all she wants. However if you want to **** her world up tell her you’ve seen better and leave it at that.

Like I said, I don’t know what she means when she rates his personality but it does seem like she’s cooled off. That to me is a bad sign. There isn’t much other context so I’ve got to go off what’s here

 

[Webb91]

i have ****ed her only the once a few weeks back

 

[Webb91]

I have been an ******* on occasions you are correct. It’s usually because I don’t put up with ****ty behaviour from them.

 

[Glassguy]

Hi guys. A girl I have seen a few times came out with ‘if i am being honest your looks is an 8/9 and your personality is a 4 but it used to be an 8’ she told me this on snapchat. I clearly need to work on personality and my frame. I am going wrong somewhere. Any tips. Thanks

Respond with "Cool. I thought my personality was more like a 2. Thanks for the boost. My girl is coming over. Gotta run".

 

[Webb91]

In my experience personality isn’t nearly as important to women as looks.

Actually, if she means you are a 4/10 personality wise because you’re an *******, it’s all good. If she means it’s because you’re a beta silent follower, then that’s a problem.

Because she is showing signs of low interest she’s either lying about your looks or she thinks you fall into the beta category. Either way, not good.

I was an ******* on occasions and she blocked me and unblocked me in cycles over a few days then I would randomly get a nude on Snapchat or we would snapchat back and forth or a few messages. She had high interest before but now she’s not. When hooked up just once.

 

[lamath]

I have been blocked a few times and currently I am unblocked. She knows I am really ripped and work in a gym so maybe she’s just doing it for attention and for me to validate her i guess‍

This is what she is doing
Dont validate her, thats when you lose.
Dont anwser her often you are a 4 personality after all.
Get more options and seriously educate yourself there is some real good poster here