StacksHitEmUp
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What does she actually mean when she says I'm playin hard to get? This is my number one prospect by the way.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She said I'm playing hard to get...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
It's a **** test. Keep doing you. Never let her words effect you.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
It could be useful feedback. The principles here on SS are training wheels, general guidelines. Some guys tend to take them too literally or too far.
When a woman really does think you're playing games she'll often eject, especially if you haven't built enough attraction. The usual effective formula is to use the principles but to pepper them with occasional "out of the blue" kindnesses. That's the roller coaster of emotion she needs.
When a woman really does think you're playing games she'll often eject, especially if you haven't built enough attraction. The usual effective formula is to use the principles but to pepper them with occasional "out of the blue" kindnesses. That's the roller coaster of emotion she needs.
StacksHitEmUp
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I have mislead you guys though. She didn't actually use the word playing, she said I was being hard to get. I sometimes do sweet gestures but very ocassionally, only if they're earned. I've been noticing a lot of women commenting on it lately whenever I do (not say) something considered nice or sweet, they ask me if that was a glimpse of my soft side. I only show glimpses of it so they'll work for it, I don't hand them the **** for free like an orbiter.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
"Is that a glimpse of your soft side?"
"This is simply who I am."
This implies that you are an integrated man and that you don't subscribe to her painting you with a dual polarity.
"This is simply who I am."
This implies that you are an integrated man and that you don't subscribe to her painting you with a dual polarity.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mot1veProgress
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Lol when i call girls out on **** tests i just keep it simple "your adorable" and follow up with something that makes whatever she said or did go up in smoke..
If a girl can comfortably say youre being hard to get... Its actually a good sign.
Drop your defenses a little.. Be yourself and have fun. Ego can break something potential
If a girl can comfortably say youre being hard to get... Its actually a good sign.
Drop your defenses a little.. Be yourself and have fun. Ego can break something potential
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Girl: I feel like your playing hard to get.
Old_Skoolr: Babe, I'm easy. Come over an cook for me and I'll show how easy I can get.
Old_Skoolr: Babe, I'm easy. Come over an cook for me and I'll show how easy I can get.
yungballa
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When she says something like that, I think you should drop your defenses, like Mot1veProgress said.
If you make it too hard for her she'll probably think you can't be reached, so she'll just eject and leave you. Remember, you've gotta seem high up to a girl, but you can't seem too high that she can't reach you. It's balance. There's nothing wrong with being attractive to a woman, but if you take it too damn far and you act PERFECTLY in her eyes she'll feel she isn't worthy of you and she'll leave you. Sometimes you gotta show her the flaws purposely, too.
If you make it too hard for her she'll probably think you can't be reached, so she'll just eject and leave you. Remember, you've gotta seem high up to a girl, but you can't seem too high that she can't reach you. It's balance. There's nothing wrong with being attractive to a woman, but if you take it too damn far and you act PERFECTLY in her eyes she'll feel she isn't worthy of you and she'll leave you. Sometimes you gotta show her the flaws purposely, too.
VladPatton
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That's when you drop her. I see it as a sign of low interest. Hey, if you've got the time to chase and chase with minimal gain, be my guest, but for the most part, you'll be wasting your time.
Mot1veProgress
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It's not a sign of low interest. But it's a sign of when a girl is getting ready to utilize her vagina powers to full force.. Females are masters of mind games. If they sense you're playing hard to get or playing with their minds/emotions.. They'll start their own chess games.. and listen, we all know, the strongest piece on a chess board is THE QUEEN lol
But jokes aside, it's not a bad time to drop her.. Because who wants to tolerate mind games?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.