"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she said im been in hidding . lol

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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swifTy

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get this straight. you don't have to explain a damm thing. stay home/go out completely up to you.

she may be dissin you; if so; ignore her and the statement completely. say wasup to someone else.

she may be jokin. if so, then you can always smirk and say 'yeah haa haa, gosh, look what happens, i go away for a while and when i come back, you tryna be funny :p howd that 'appen?
 

Microfiltered

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K seriously, don’t fvcking listen/ take to heart anything a girl says. It sounds like you haven’t read a single tip on this board because if you had, you would know this since it’s stated everywhere.

twodollars said:
should i take it as joke . or seriously.
Is this a girl you’re interested in gaming? If so, read the body language. If not, don’t take it as anything. Forget it and continue to move forward. Please refrain from thinking too deeply into this mental sh!t.
 

cyraid

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It was obviously a joke. A way of speaking so to say. You honestly took that literally?
Anyway you shouldn't be trying to validate yourself for a girl anyway. Let her think what she wants.
 

Potbelly

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Dude use your goddamn BRAIN:

Her: well well look who came out of hiding?
Me: who came out of hiding?
Her: you!
Me: Why do you say that?
Her: I haven't seen you in ages
Me: hmm come to think of it, I haven't seen YOU in ages either. Were you hiding too?
Her: ...wait...no
Me: I just nailed you good. ::victory dance::
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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