"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she said im been in hidding . lol

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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swifTy

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get this straight. you don't have to explain a damm thing. stay home/go out completely up to you.

she may be dissin you; if so; ignore her and the statement completely. say wasup to someone else.

she may be jokin. if so, then you can always smirk and say 'yeah haa haa, gosh, look what happens, i go away for a while and when i come back, you tryna be funny :p howd that 'appen?
 

Microfiltered

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K seriously, don’t fvcking listen/ take to heart anything a girl says. It sounds like you haven’t read a single tip on this board because if you had, you would know this since it’s stated everywhere.

twodollars said:
should i take it as joke . or seriously.
Is this a girl you’re interested in gaming? If so, read the body language. If not, don’t take it as anything. Forget it and continue to move forward. Please refrain from thinking too deeply into this mental sh!t.
 

cyraid

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It was obviously a joke. A way of speaking so to say. You honestly took that literally?
Anyway you shouldn't be trying to validate yourself for a girl anyway. Let her think what she wants.
 

Potbelly

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Dude use your goddamn BRAIN:

Her: well well look who came out of hiding?
Me: who came out of hiding?
Her: you!
Me: Why do you say that?
Her: I haven't seen you in ages
Me: hmm come to think of it, I haven't seen YOU in ages either. Were you hiding too?
Her: ...wait...no
Me: I just nailed you good. ::victory dance::
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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