She Said "I need Time Alone"

[Hail]

Hello Everybody, I am 23 Years Old and the Girl I love is 7 months Younger. We are on a distance relationship, she is 600 Km away from me. We Never Met, I got her birthday present but she refused to see me for some reasons that would be hard to explain here. our relationship started as friendship but it developed for me to be love. I waited sometime to tell her but then I said I should let her know. She said it is just too soon for her to decide on her feelings and that was after 2 months after we knew each other. She said that her intention at the beginning was only friendship and She says that she is not ready for more than that now. we have had one or two fights that she says that she isn't feeling the same as i do and i said OK I will move on and yet she said no that she will not be able to do without me. things were little crappy for sometime but afterwards things moved on. Her point is that she talks to me without her family knowing about it and neither her closest friends. she thinks that she is doing something wrong and she is very stressed about it. we can not talk over the phone while she is around her parents or with her friends. she is so confused and feels she did a mistake and talks about it all the time. We have been together for 4 months now and we have had few arguments and one or two fights. Things have been going really cool and everything was fine. We text-ed every single day and called each other every single day for the past four months. Suddenly without any intros she started responding very late to my sms and started being very cold with me. I asked what is wrong she said nothing wrong i am fine but i need some time a lone. At that time I was sick so I blamed her and said that I needed her support and she replied " Don't be selfish, I Need time alone I have had to put with a lot of trouble and I hide a lot stuff that hurts me bcoz i want not to hurt you or make you angry bcoz you are already stressed and anxious most of times. I replied " It is OK, take your time and the space you need and I will be here when you feel you need to talk, Wish you best of Luck" It has been two days now and she did not txt or call. I really feel down and depressed, I am so confused and feel guilt. I also got used to her being around me and giving me attention and care as I giver her a lot of feelings and attention. What I think is that she is done with all of that and wants to move on with her study bcoz she is studying medicine and gets a lot of stress on her last days of college before graduation. She has dumped me I guess. I don't know guys I felt like sharing it with you bcoz no one around me knows about this as me and her agreed on this from the beginning. I once asked her for a picture to keep with me and she said no, she did not want to have me remember her all the time- that happened when we were fighting. when sharing pictures on Yahoo- God damn it, She shows me her picture on the little display ****ty chat window. I feel very pathetic and very needy. She has been selfish on most of occasions and I offered her an open set of options in order to go on and continue our relationship coz I love her and I guess all what she thought about was her Image in front of other people and her career advancement. I offered to travel to her for 600 Km to only giver her a present and then move the f**ck away and she said no. well I have been talking too much but I am welcome to suggestions and Blames if you like. Best Regards

 

[cordoncordon]

Hello Everybody, I am 23 Years Old and the Girl I love is 7 months Younger. We are on a distance relationship, she is 600 Km away from me. We Never Met, I got her birthday present but she refused to see me for some reasons that would be hard to explain here. our relationship started as friendship but it developed for me to be love. I waited sometime to tell her but then I said I should let her know. She said it is just too soon for her to decide on her feelings and that was after 2 months after we knew each other. She said that her intention at the beginning was only friendship and She says that she is not ready for more than that now. we have had one or two fights that she says that she isn't feeling the same as i do and i said OK I will move on and yet she said no that she will not be able to do without me. things were little crappy for sometime but afterwards things moved on. Her point is that she talks to me without her family knowing about it and neither her closest friends. she thinks that she is doing something wrong and she is very stressed about it. we can not talk over the phone while she is around her parents or with her friends. she is so confused and feels she did a mistake and talks about it all the time. We have been together for 4 months now and we have had few arguments and one or two fights. Things have been going really cool and everything was fine. We text-ed every single day and called each other every single day for the past four months. Suddenly without any intros she started responding very late to my sms and started being very cold with me. I asked what is wrong she said nothing wrong i am fine but i need some time a lone. At that time I was sick so I blamed her and said that I needed her support and she replied " Don't be selfish, I Need time alone I have had to put with a lot of trouble and I hide a lot stuff that hurts me bcoz i want not to hurt you or make you angry bcoz you are already stressed and anxious most of times. I replied " It is OK, take your time and the space you need and I will be here when you feel you need to talk, Wish you best of Luck" It has been two days now and she did not txt or call. I really feel down and depressed, I am so confused and feel guilt. I also got used to her being around me and giving me attention and care as I giver her a lot of feelings and attention. What I think is that she is done with all of that and wants to move on with her study bcoz she is studying medicine and gets a lot of stress on her last days of college before graduation. She has dumped me I guess. I don't know guys I felt like sharing it with you bcoz no one around me knows about this as me and her agreed on this from the beginning. I once asked her for a picture to keep with me and she said no, she did not want to have me remember her all the time- that happened when we were fighting. when sharing pictures on Yahoo- God damn it, She shows me her picture on the little display ****ty chat window. I feel very pathetic and very needy. She has been selfish on most of occasions and I offered her an open set of options in order to go on and continue our relationship coz I love her and I guess all what she thought about was her Image in front of other people and her career advancement. I offered to travel to her for 600 Km to only giver her a present and then move the f**ck away and she said no. well I have been talking too much but I am welcome to suggestions and Blames if you like. Best Regards

Forgetting for a second all the things you have done wrong "in the relationship".....as in you have been a huge pvssy, how in the fvck can you be in love with someone you have NEVER MET?!! Think about that for a second. Are you that desperate? That out of options? Have a self esteem that low? That you seriously are going nutso over a girl that you have never seen face to face?

I would suggest reading all the threads here, read all of the DD material available, and starting your live over, because right now? You have LOSER with a capital L written all over your forehead.

Sorry to be so blunt, but dayyyyyyyyyyyym.

 

[Tiguere]

this thread just ruined my saturday!

 

[between]

Guess what, today isn't saturday, today is CATURDAY!!!

lol I couldn't read the great wall of text, but I imagine that if you read around on the forums and other people's topics, you might start to get a grasp of the situation. And especially read the Don Juan Bible.

 

[Kirro]

Hello Everybody, I am 23 Years Old and the Girl I love is 7 months Younger.

Notice how you said the girl you love but not the girl who loves you. *snickers*

We are on a distance relationship, she is 600 Km away from me. We Never Met,

Fail.

I got her birthday present but she refused to see me for some reasons that would be hard to explain here.

She refused to see you because of your behaviour, any woman truly interested in you will go through hurricanes to be with you face to face.


our relationship started as friendship but it developed for me to be love. I waited sometime to tell her but then I said I should let her know. She said it is just too soon for her to decide on her feelings and that was after 2 months after we knew each other.

& I agree with this chick 100%. You scared her off with your emotional weakness. Also women don't DECIDE on feelings, women can't choose how to feel, they just feel it. This is a big reason she won't see you, you're chumpness snapped her legs shut.

She said that her intention at the beginning was only friendship and She says that she is not ready for more than that now.

Not with you she isn't.

we have had one or two fights that she says that she isn't feeling the same as i do and i said OK I will move on and yet she said no that she will not be able to do without me.

You had fights lol? HAHAHAHAHAHA? You're her emotional slave. You entertain her with safe drama, she gets to experience some good ole emotional stimulation without having to suck you off or ride you. XD

things were little crappy for sometime

Sometime? This entire thing has been crap from start to finish.

but afterwards things moved on. Her point is that she talks to me without her family knowing about it and neither her closest friends. she thinks that she is doing something wrong and she is very stressed about it. we can not talk over the phone while she is around her parents or with her friends. she is so confused and feels she did a mistake and talks about it all the time.

BS. She's around your age, she can do what she pleases. I doubt she hasn't told anyone, I can imagine her making fun of how much of a chump you are with all her friends & family.

We have been together for 4 months now and we have had few arguments and one or two fights. Things have been going really cool and everything was fine.

You're a sad chap. You're not together, its all in your head. You call never meeting a chick fine? WOW. Where do you guys come from?

We text-ed every single day and called each other every single day for the past four months. Suddenly without any intros she started responding very late to my sms and started being very cold with me. I asked what is wrong she said nothing wrong i am fine but i need some time a lone.

How can she have time alone when she's never even been around you? How insane is this? Also you made another fundamental mistake, you communicated with her via text every single day for 4 months? You idiot, that's an over saturation of attention.


At that time I was sick so I blamed her and said that I needed her support and she replied " Don't be selfish,

Oh the irony. A being who is selfish by default telling you not to be selfish.

I Need time alone I have had to put with a lot of trouble and I hide a lot stuff that hurts me bcoz i want not to hurt you or make you angry bcoz you are already stressed and anxious most of times.

What's this.....the hell....I don't even.................UGH

I replied " It is OK, take your time and the space you need and I will be here when you feel you need to talk, Wish you best of Luck" It has been two days now and she did not txt or call. I really feel down and depressed, I am so confused and feel guilt. I also got used to her being around me and giving me attention and care as I giver her a lot of feelings and attention. What I think is that she is done with all of that and wants to move on with her study bcoz she is studying medicine and gets a lot of stress on her last days of college before graduation.

You're a girl, you sound like a needy desperate girl. One with serious issues for which they should seek mental assistance.

She has dumped me I guess.

She never had you bruh. There's probably a real dude in her life that she feels compelled to suck & fvck.

I don't know guys I felt like sharing it with you bcoz no one around me knows about this as me and her agreed on this from the beginning. I once asked her for a picture to keep with me and she said no, she did not want to have me remember her all the time- that happened when we were fighting. when sharing pictures on Yahoo- God damn it, She shows me her picture on the little display ****ty chat window.

Leave the goddamn house you nutcase. Do you know how stupid is for a male, a rational being to develop strong emotional attachments to a person he's never seen in person?

I feel very pathetic and very needy.

For once your feelings reflect reality.


She has been selfish on most of occasions

She's a female, what do you expect?

and I offered her an open set of options in order to go on and continue our relationship coz I love her and I guess all what she thought about was her Image in front of other people and her career advancement.

She actually sounds a lot more sensible than you do. You love a girl you've never met, she knows your bad news & at best a tumour in her life.

I offered to travel to her for 600 Km to only giver her a present and then move the f**ck away and she said no. well I have been talking too much but I am welcome to suggestions and Blames if you like. Best Regards

Get a life bro. I mean seriously go out & have hobbies & meet REAL people. This virtual life does nothing for you if you don't have an actual one. You can't hide behind a cpu screen & find love, it just doesn't work that way. Virtual attention is the equivalent to porn for the typical chick. You have her heaps of virtual attention & emotional stimulation. You were doomed from the get go & professing love sealed the deal.

You were desperate & weak & women don't like that in men because those are feminine traits. If somehow your real life isn't going too well, online dating won't save you, it will just send you to the social afterlife even faster.

 

[Hail]

Thank you everybody and Special Thanks to Kirro for the deep analysis and sincere comment. I agree with you totally, I have had my life closed after graduation living at my parents house and being desperate for females. So to put this to a clear form:
1. I have told her I love You.
2. We only saw each other pictures.
3. We never met face to face.
4. She did not want me to keep her pictures.
5. She refused to meet me when i offered to travel and give her her presents.
6. She thinks that I got no job, No money and desperate for her and that I don't know any other girl.
Well, She is mistaken, I really trying to forget every f**ckin moment I spent cheering this Bit*ch up. I went recently to learn a foreign language : German and will join a GYM. I started going out with friends more but never spoke out about what I felt. I just want to get serious and start to meet real people and get the real experience. The whole online dating and the Chat are a big baloon of fu**ckin illusion unfortunately. We tend to screw each other just to have fun but wait for what it is coming it is comin all back on ur @ss.

 

[Kirro]

Listen I've taken my lumps from online dating. There have been times I've spent way too much time in front of screening giving away attention/validation for free however you realize you made some stupid mistakes, you laugh them off & you move on.

Its good you're getting proactive, no need to be bitter or angry at her. She really did nothing wrong, she was just being a typical girl.

 

[Hail]

Thanks Dude, really appreciate it

 

[goldengoose]

this is crazy. being so upset about a chick you never even met. what will you do if you date a girl you actually meet? you were only talking with her. no big deal.

 

[RockaRolla25]

Hello Everybody, I am 23 Years Old and the Girl I love is 7 months Younger. We are on a distance relationship, she is 600 Km away from me. We Never Met, I got her birthday present but she refused to see me for some reasons that would be hard to explain here. our relationship started as friendship but it developed for me to be love. I waited sometime to tell her but then I said I should let her know. She said it is just too soon for her to decide on her feelings and that was after 2 months after we knew each other. She said that her intention at the beginning was only friendship and She says that she is not ready for more than that now. we have had one or two fights that she says that she isn't feeling the same as i do and i said OK I will move on and yet she said no that she will not be able to do without me. things were little crappy for sometime but afterwards things moved on. Her point is that she talks to me without her family knowing about it and neither her closest friends. she thinks that she is doing something wrong and she is very stressed about it. we can not talk over the phone while she is around her parents or with her friends. she is so confused and feels she did a mistake and talks about it all the time. We have been together for 4 months now and we have had few arguments and one or two fights. Things have been going really cool and everything was fine. We text-ed every single day and called each other every single day for the past four months. Suddenly without any intros she started responding very late to my sms and started being very cold with me. I asked what is wrong she said nothing wrong i am fine but i need some time a lone. At that time I was sick so I blamed her and said that I needed her support and she replied " Don't be selfish, I Need time alone I have had to put with a lot of trouble and I hide a lot stuff that hurts me bcoz i want not to hurt you or make you angry bcoz you are already stressed and anxious most of times. I replied " It is OK, take your time and the space you need and I will be here when you feel you need to talk, Wish you best of Luck" It has been two days now and she did not txt or call. I really feel down and depressed, I am so confused and feel guilt. I also got used to her being around me and giving me attention and care as I giver her a lot of feelings and attention. What I think is that she is done with all of that and wants to move on with her study bcoz she is studying medicine and gets a lot of stress on her last days of college before graduation. She has dumped me I guess. I don't know guys I felt like sharing it with you bcoz no one around me knows about this as me and her agreed on this from the beginning. I once asked her for a picture to keep with me and she said no, she did not want to have me remember her all the time- that happened when we were fighting. when sharing pictures on Yahoo- God damn it, She shows me her picture on the little display ****ty chat window. I feel very pathetic and very needy. She has been selfish on most of occasions and I offered her an open set of options in order to go on and continue our relationship coz I love her and I guess all what she thought about was her Image in front of other people and her career advancement. I offered to travel to her for 600 Km to only giver her a present and then move the f**ck away and she said no. well I have been talking too much but I am welcome to suggestions and Blames if you like. Best Regards

Look up the word "paragraph" in the dictionary.

 

[Hail]

Please Help!

I talked to the girl yesterday and said I can't go on any more. I feel very bad and I am sorry I like to end everything now.
She is just emotionless, Blunt, Cold, No Emotions what so ever.
Q :I asked her what would you do if we stop talking:
A: She said It will be hard for me at the beginning but it will be OK with time.

Q: What am I for You?
A: A friend, No more and no Less

Q: Why do you talk to me?
A: I got used to talking with you, It became part of my daily life. What i Understood is : P.S : It is sort of Routine !!

She is just emotionless, I asked her if I am a suitable partner for her. She answered - Lying - Yes you can be my life partner but I don't think about commitment now. I want to marry someone older she is 23 and 7 months younger. She wants to marry someone older with a consistent maybe permanent career and money doesn't count: Lier: and she said I would marry someone who made progress in his career even if he is ****ed p financially.
She also said that I will not stand against my family for whatever reason or person if my family says no about him. I should agree and my family should agree too if one side doesn't agree I can't confront my family.
She said Maybe someday I meet one guy that changes all of this and make me fall in love and trespass everything i have mind who knows.

I said I can't continue with you, You think of me as your friend and I think of you as my lover I need to leave and have my own life and I need to be alone. She said OK but I want you to be OK.

I have never seen someone so emotionless, blunt, cold, dis-caring as such person. She is practical doesn't have feelings all she does in her life is to calculate and think logically in every aspect even in feelings and emotions which is wrong. I feel very F**ckin down and hate myself for doing this to my emotions and my self confidence. I used to have a separate mobile phone line for her other the one I use for My friends. She knows Both Numbers. I don't know if I should Turn Off the Line I use for her forever or just let it on and never respond to her calls or her sms?

 

[pipe007]

first of all I consider myself the most caring rational and empathetic person I know of. having said that, i believe she just treated you the way you DESERVE to be treated right now!

and she probly had fun doing it!!!

trust me, I would have had a BLAST crushing your girly heart not because i am blung, unemotional cold bastard, but because you are beyond hopeless, you have NO CLUE about life, and its funny to break poeple out of their bubble. she has actually HELPED you by treating you like this, maybe you will start making some changes now.

so thank her, she is the most rational person here, you need help!

I remember I did this to a girl who didnt have a clue, who thought we were meant to be even though I lied in her face and told her about the lies, and always canceled plans and told her i didnt like her and I still could get to be with her cuz she has hopeful.... it was entertaining, i wanted to break her out of her bubble and see that life is not a disney princess cartoon... and finally she learned at the end and she kicked me out of her life, I was happy when she did that, she grew as a person.

wouldnt do this again, of course, i was young and dumb before.

 

[Ace_Magnamus]

1. I have told her I love You.
2. We only saw each other pictures.
3. We never met face to face.
4. She did not want me to keep her pictures.
5. She refused to meet me when i offered to travel and give her her presents.
6. She thinks that I got no job, No money and desperate for her and that I don't know any other girl.
Well, She is mistaken, I really trying to forget every f**ckin moment I spent cheering this Bit*ch up. I went recently to learn a foreign language : German and will join a GYM. I started going out with friends more but never spoke out about what I felt. I just want to get serious and start to meet real people and get the real experience. The whole online dating and the Chat are a big baloon of fu**ckin illusion unfortunately. We tend to screw each other just to have fun but wait for what it is coming it is comin all back on ur @ss.

I hate to kick a guy when he is down but he brought all this on himself.

Yes you should feel pathetic by the way you are acting/acted with her.

What is wrong with you man? Get some help. You came off as a creepy kooky guy to her when you started saying "I Love You" with all your feelings you say you have when she never had them for you.

You are not in a "relationship" it is a long distance acquaintance that you never even met her. How is that a relationship? How can she even dump you?

She is trying to get rid of you because you are being weird with her.

She refused to see you because you are acting creepy. Why would you give her presents? She is not your gf. you NEVER met her. Why do that?

She is right. You are desperate for her. You have no other girls. If you did you wouldnt say you "love her" and you wouldn't be this upset acting desperate. You wouldn't be putting in this much effort into a girl you never met. That is being desperate. She knows that. That is why she doesn't want to talk with you anymore or meet up. You are being weird and creepy.

Why are you mad at her? It's not her fault you made/wanted more out of it than it was. It was a long distance internet/phone friendship that she got used to talking with you. That is all it was. She was being truthful with you.

She only got cold and blunt when you started acting weird.

online dating is not an illusion when you can get girls that live close to you and you don't act creepy with them like you did.

I talked to the girl yesterday and said I can't go on any more. I feel very bad and I am sorry I like to end everything now.
She is just emotionless, Blunt, Cold, No Emotions what so ever.
Q :I asked her what would you do if we stop talking:
A: She said It will be hard for me at the beginning but it will be OK with time.

Q: What am I for You?
A: A friend, No more and no Less

Q: Why do you talk to me?
A: I got used to talking with you, It became part of my daily life. What i Understood is : P.S : It is sort of Routine !!

She is just emotionless, I asked her if I am a suitable partner for her. She answered - Lying - Yes you can be my life partner but I don't think about commitment now. I want to marry someone older she is 23 and 7 months younger. She wants to marry someone older with a consistent maybe permanent career and money doesn't count: Lier: and she said I would marry someone who made progress in his career even if he is ****ed p financially.
She also said that I will not stand against my family for whatever reason or person if my family says no about him. I should agree and my family should agree too if one side doesn't agree I can't confront my family.
She said Maybe someday I meet one guy that changes all of this and make me fall in love and trespass everything i have mind who knows.

I said I can't continue with you, You think of me as your friend and I think of you as my lover I need to leave and have my own life and I need to be alone. She said OK but I want you to be OK.

I have never seen someone so emotionless, blunt, cold, dis-caring as such person. She is practical doesn't have feelings all she does in her life is to calculate and think logically in every aspect even in feelings and emotions which is wrong. I feel very F**ckin down and hate myself for doing this to my emotions and my self confidence. I used to have a separate mobile phone line for her other the one I use for My friends. She knows Both Numbers. I don't know if I should Turn Off the Line I use for her forever or just let it on and never respond to her calls or her sms?

Geez man....look how you're talking....you're talking crazy...calling her your lover when you never met her before....wtf? no wonder this chick is cold as ice and doesnt want to talk with you.

she is telling you the truth man. she isn't playing you. she got creeped out by YOU

she is your "phone friend" that is it.......how could it be more? it wasn't

You talked everyday......it was fun for her....it was routine...then you got weird....now she doesn't want to talk to you anymore....that's how it went down man.

It will feel weird for her not to talk with you.....you talked everyday....then she will be ok because you were nothing more as a distant friend....then she will forget about you......she is right. why are you mad at her?

Why did you put all this effort into a chick you never met?

that is desperate and is being a loser.

You ruined this "friendship" If you didn't get weird on her you guys would still be talking and maybe even met up.

you were only friends that is all you ever were....get it through your head.

please don't act this way if you ever meet another chick or the same thing will happen to you again.

 

[Hail]

Thanks Ace, I dealt the wrong way. And by the way she said that, Guess what I remebered what she said few weeks ago I quote " You needed love, You were emotionally and rationally set for love from the beginning and you acted all through this, You did not love me because of ME But you needed love and any girl would have been the same for you" I tried to tell her she is special, she is an exception and her character is different and that is what attracted me to her but she was never convinced, I admit it ACE I was week, desperate and very very needy for a girl to the extent that I put so much effort in a distance relation ship that we never met face to face. Her excuses were dull for me when she refused to meet. I offered so many alternatives like going to festival, Public party, Music show any thing snd she always turned me down, bottom line is like what you said she did not want to meet originally and I acted creepy and she told me few times that she gets afraid of me when I joke with her and laugh a lot with her and also when i tell her romantic words or poem. I don't know if she is normal because I acted very normal and felt like a piece of Sh**t when she told me that she got afraid of me when I was trying to convey my emotions, trying to cheer her up and showing care and attention. This Girl freaked me out. It is not her mistake It is mine
When Dating girls you should never:
1. Start saying " I love You"
2. Be as Cold as you can and at occasions be funny and cheerful.
3. Dont offer too much attention, on the other hand be forgetting to some extent even if you are dying to talk to her DON'T.
4. Treat them bad on occasion by occasion they will like you, they don't like too nice guys.
5. Never seek out a girl, or at least don't show it.
and the rest comes......

 

[jafyk]

Before another person reads Hail his last rites...

Hail, my son look up and smile for today salvation shines upon your lost soul. The gentlemen men above have played bad cop and beaten the sense into your head...so.
First of all this girl's name is not Jessica Taylor by any chance is it? lol, because she did a number on me too.
Anyway, let me just say I used to be you. Pretty same exact situation. Everyone laughed at me for being in love with an internet girl but I was blind and desperately tried harder for her love. I was like an addict she was my drug. I would wait for her calls (which were private, I never even had her #), I would leave friends to meet her online and the phone sex even got me deeper into my addiction. Everyone I sought advice for my girl situation were pretty much telling me what the bad cops above have told you but would I listen? Nope. I spent $200 to buy her a plane ticket to see her. Yet she didn't want to see me. She said she's refund the money. Never got that money again. I finally went to her city and state. She knew I was coming. Did she show up? No. Why all because I was blind and had no clue (yet I thought I knew it all) Thinking about this now fills me with shame. The good news is that I can look back at my past and see how lost I was. I only wish I had found this site sooner. So, brother Hail from this point on your life will only get better because you will know the truth and it will set you free.

The first thing you have to do is destroy every evidence of her existence. E-mails, texts, phone #'s and even pics (they could be fake for all you know). Block her because, trust me there will come a time when she will suddenly pop up and then you will find yourself relapsing. Please act right away while you've come to your senses and are upset at her. It is also important that you fill the void that she's left with something else otherwise you will find yourself going back. Get out do a hobby, try something new and stick around here, read some of the posts and the main sosuave site to get info that will help you.
The most important thing I will recommend to you is that you scroll to the bottom of this screen and on the left side click click on the DJ Bible and then down load the Book of Pook and read it in it's entirety. I think you should do that first before even going further with this site.
Well, come back to life brother you don't have to go to the afterlife of the virtual life and today is the first day of the rest of your life. Go out and celebrate with friends or strangers. Find a club and dance. Most importantly when you do get to where you want to be. Show a little compassion on that newbie who may come your way and not bash them like the bad cops above, lol. Cheers mate.
- Jafyk (Just Another Face You Know)

 

[nismo-4]

Hail rhymes with fail, what this long ass post is full of.

You need to examine yourself and this post, the girl is not that much into you like you are into her.

Case closed.

 

[Ace_Magnamus]

Thanks Ace, I dealt the wrong way. And by the way she said that, Guess what I remebered what she said few weeks ago I quote " You needed love, You were emotionally and rationally set for love from the beginning and you acted all through this, You did not love me because of ME But you needed love and any girl would have been the same for you" I tried to tell her she is special, she is an exception and her character is different and that is what attracted me to her but she was never convinced, I admit it ACE I was week, desperate and very very needy for a girl to the extent that I put so much effort in a distance relation ship that we never met face to face. Her excuses were dull for me when she refused to meet. I offered so many alternatives like going to festival, Public party, Music show any thing snd she always turned me down, bottom line is like what you said she did not want to meet originally and I acted creepy and she told me few times that she gets afraid of me when I joke with her and laugh a lot with her and also when i tell her romantic words or poem. I don't know if she is normal because I acted very normal and felt like a piece of Sh**t when she told me that she got afraid of me when I was trying to convey my emotions, trying to cheer her up and showing care and attention. This Girl freaked me out. It is not her mistake It is mine
When Dating girls you should never:
1. Start saying " I love You"
2. Be as Cold as you can and at occasions be funny and cheerful.
3. Dont offer too much attention, on the other hand be forgetting to some extent even if you are dying to talk to her DON'T.
4. Treat them bad on occasion by occasion they will like you, they don't like too nice guys.
5. Never seek out a girl, or at least don't show it.
and the rest comes......

Yes you did......she is right.....you finally had someone to talk to....you got feelings and made way too much out of it for a girl you never met.

you creeped her out....she didnt want to hang out....thats why she made excuses...you should of got the hint and backed off...but you pushed more.

why was she afraid of your jokes?

why would you tell her love poems? that creeped her out man

why was she freaking you out?

she is normal....you were acting creepy and not normal

when she said she was afraid of you.....thats when you should of backed off and stopped talking to her....you made it worse on her and you pushing for more.

how can you cheer her up when you are the one she is afraid of?

please don't hand out any advice here.......work on yourself first man

do something to help with yourself stop being overly needy and creepy

 

[Hail]

Thank you all for what you said and Jafyk you really made me day because i think i was a total moron, guys i think I became mature and a grown up, I want Everyone opinion and sincere review, I am going back to this girl and I am going to be her freind and let her be my friend too. Yet I am confused on some stuff that had never crossed my head when I was acting love!! I am just gonna be myself and act normal in this friendship.

what we have in our newly established friendship: 1. Mobile Phone: Sms as it needs, Talk rarely if we have the time and if she has it I might not have it and might not answer all her calls funnily enough i used to wait for hours for her call or sms . We will talk in everything but not love or intimacy. what do you guys think tell me can i go and talk like it is normal and it is normal in fact? I am going out more often and planning on meeting serious real life girls and maybe get the skill and choose one for my life as a life partner or just go out play and practice. I am reading the DJ Bible and some posts.

Tell me SHOULD I GO BACK TO THIS GIRL and be only her friend and she is and will be only my friend? she must be suffering now. and I miss her!!

I am gonna be her friend, If I receive positive posts, but if yes I am gonna need serious and several advice on how to be a male friend for a girl. Thanks allllllllll

 

[Tyson420]

Whats her Facebook she sounds like a real ***** who needs to be put in her place.

This really ****ed up my day, and it just started too.

 

[goldengoose]

she doesn't like to talk to you anymore. I dont think she wants to be your friend. can't you find another girl in person to be friends with? Like one you can actually hang out with. i wouldnt deal with this chick no more. you scared her away.