"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She Said "I need Time Alone"

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Hail said:
Thank you all for what you said and Jafyk you really made me day because i think i was a total moron, guys i think I became mature and a grown up, I want Everyone opinion and sincere review, I am going back to this girl and I am going to be her freind and let her be my friend too. Yet I am confused on some stuff that had never crossed my head when I was acting love!! I am just gonna be myself and act normal in this friendship.

what we have in our newly established friendship: 1. Mobile Phone: Sms as it needs, Talk rarely if we have the time and if she has it I might not have it :) and might not answer all her calls funnily enough i used to wait for hours for her call or sms :). We will talk in everything but not love or intimacy. what do you guys think tell me can i go and talk like it is normal and it is normal in fact? I am going out more often and planning on meeting serious real life girls and maybe get the skill and choose one for my life as a life partner or just go out play and practice. I am reading the DJ Bible and some posts.

Tell me SHOULD I GO BACK TO THIS GIRL and be only her friend and she is and will be only my friend? she must be suffering now. and I miss her!!

I am gonna be her friend, If I receive positive posts, but if yes I am gonna need serious and several advice on how to be a male friend for a girl. Thanks allllllllll
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OMG! You've gotta be kidding me after what everyone has told you? Fine go back to her and continue to enslave yourself. You have a severe case of ONE-itis. If you can't get over a girl you've never met and if she can dictate your life imagine how much more hopeless you will be with a real life girl. There are so many women out there for you to meet. It's best for you to move on and start over fresh. While learning from this experience. Well, maybe someday you will learn but right now it seems whatever anyone here tells you is a waste of time. It's obvious you are not getting it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Look at the bright side....You have reached your zenith of being a wuss. You can only go forward from this moment on.......
Just kidding dude, but seriously, you need to act like a Man.
Chicks are not as romantic as you think they are.
I imagine you daydream about you two walking hand in hand on the beach exclaiming your love for each other.
Imagine her taking a dump. Imagine her waking up with sleep in her eyes and morning breath that could peel paint.
Stop being so damn romantic, go watch some James Bond movies, and let your pair grow..........
 
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