Hello Everybody, I am 23 Years Old and the Girl I love is 7 months Younger. We are on a distance relationship, she is 600 Km away from me. We Never Met, I got her birthday present but she refused to see me for some reasons that would be hard to explain here. our relationship started as friendship but it developed for me to be love. I waited sometime to tell her but then I said I should let her know. She said it is just too soon for her to decide on her feelings and that was after 2 months after we knew each other. She said that her intention at the beginning was only friendship and She says that she is not ready for more than that now. we have had one or two fights that she says that she isn't feeling the same as i do and i said OK I will move on and yet she said no that she will not be able to do without me. things were little crappy for sometime but afterwards things moved on. Her point is that she talks to me without her family knowing about it and neither her closest friends. she thinks that she is doing something wrong and she is very stressed about it. we can not talk over the phone while she is around her parents or with her friends. she is so confused and feels she did a mistake and talks about it all the time. We have been together for 4 months now and we have had few arguments and one or two fights. Things have been going really cool and everything was fine. We text-ed every single day and called each other every single day for the past four months. Suddenly without any intros she started responding very late to my sms and started being very cold with me. I asked what is wrong she said nothing wrong i am fine but i need some time a lone. At that time I was sick so I blamed her and said that I needed her support and she replied " Don't be selfish, I Need time alone I have had to put with a lot of trouble and I hide a lot stuff that hurts me bcoz i want not to hurt you or make you angry bcoz you are already stressed and anxious most of times. I replied " It is OK, take your time and the space you need and I will be here when you feel you need to talk, Wish you best of Luck" It has been two days now and she did not txt or call. I really feel down and depressed, I am so confused and feel guilt. I also got used to her being around me and giving me attention and care as I giver her a lot of feelings and attention. What I think is that she is done with all of that and wants to move on with her study bcoz she is studying medicine and gets a lot of stress on her last days of college before graduation. She has dumped me I guess. I don't know guys I felt like sharing it with you bcoz no one around me knows about this as me and her agreed on this from the beginning. I once asked her for a picture to keep with me and she said no, she did not want to have me remember her all the time- that happened when we were fighting. when sharing pictures on Yahoo- God damn it, She shows me her picture on the little display ****ty chat window. I feel very pathetic and very needy. She has been selfish on most of occasions and I offered her an open set of options in order to go on and continue our relationship coz I love her and I guess all what she thought about was her Image in front of other people and her career advancement. I offered to travel to her for 600 Km to only giver her a present and then move the f**ck away and she said no. well I have been talking too much but I am welcome to suggestions and Blames if you like. Best Regards