She re-wired my mojo!

[Life-Trainee]

I started seeing this girl over a month ago and I managed to develop pretty strong feelings for her. I'm not going AFC over her cuz I have pretty good self-restraint but something happened that totally messed me up. I developed a new kind of feel and desire for intimacy with her. As a result of these feelings my ability to climax went down. Since that happened my desire for porn disappeared overnight.

I haven't jacked it in a while because of this. It's like my horniness was re-routed into a more emotional thing. I can still get myself to come but with great effort to the point that it's not very enjoyable.

The other night we were making love and I still wasn't able to come or stay hard for a long time but I was having an orgasmic experience in my mind, i was completely in a state of euphoria emotionally. I think she got disappointed she couldn't get me off.

I looked into it, maybe it's a performance anxiety thing, but I can't get off when I'm on my own either! This literally happened overnight when I realized I had strong feelings for her.

Does anyone have a slightest idea wtf is going on here??

I'm still horny but it's all in my mind and I can't route it where I need to!

I'm pretty sure it's purely emotional thing cuz before I was a regular horny 23 year old.

 

[Dingus]

My God! She turned you into a woman!

 

[Rogerman]

Just think that it's just a phase.. dont worry too much about it bro

 

[Stud]

you're probably just nervous.you're worried that since you love this girl, your sexual performance won't be up to par with everything else and your lack of prowess will send her in the direction of another mate.

the only way to improve your sexual confidence is to get out there and practice. you will have some low points and high points, but if you work at it eventually your confidence shall improve and your levels of mojo should return to their previous states.

 

[DJDanny]

Originally posted by Dingus
My God! She turned you into a woman!

:crackup:

 

[fyrefly]

Originally posted by Dingus
My God! She turned you into a woman!

you win

 

[darth yoda]

Originally posted by Life-Trainee
I started seeing this girl over a month ago and I managed to develop pretty strong feelings for her. I'm not going AFC over her cuz I have pretty good self-restraint but something happened that totally messed me up. I developed a new kind of feel and desire for intimacy with her. As a result of these feelings my ability to climax went down. Since that happened my desire for porn disappeared overnight.

I haven't jacked it in a while because of this. It's like my horniness was re-routed into a more emotional thing. I can still get myself to come but with great effort to the point that it's not very enjoyable.

The other night we were making love and I still wasn't able to come or stay hard for a long time but I was having an orgasmic experience in my mind, i was completely in a state of euphoria emotionally. I think she got disappointed she couldn't get me off.

I looked into it, maybe it's a performance anxiety thing, but I can't get off when I'm on my own either! This literally happened overnight when I realized I had strong feelings for her.

Does anyone have a slightest idea wtf is going on here??

I'm still horny but it's all in my mind and I can't route it where I need to!

I'm pretty sure it's purely emotional thing cuz before I was a regular horny 23 year old.

I went through this same exact thing. Porn withdrawal/maybe some guilt that you're lookng at porn when you care for this girl so much, and a touch of performance anxiety.

You'll be over it soon. It was all mental for me. Good luck.

 

[Life-Trainee]

Thanks guys, I think I'm getting better! Emotions can really screw a guy up.