"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She probably likes me, right?

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I saw a woman at work I hadn't seen in several years. This is because she's in a different department, I'd moved away, she works at home a lot, etc. It's a big company.

Several years ago, this lady stopped me, she demanded that I talk to her. I was more shy then than I am now. I had no concept of game whatsoever, so I was prone to walking around in my own thoughts.

Fast forward, I've lost weight, I have game, I'm not as shy. I said hi, gave her my name, we talked a little while while walking down the hall.

She essentially confessed that she was lonely and didn't have anyone to deal with at work or at home besides her dog. She seemed to catch herself doing this at the end, but it's very "I want a man" type behavior.

I think I'll ask for her number. She's an HB7 I think. yes, she does seem a little starved for attention--no not attention companionship, but that should make it easier. Is there something I could be forgetting?

Even though we work for the same company, we're so far removed, both physically and job-wise that I dont' think its' a big deal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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an interested woman wouldn't make you ask yourself these questions
 

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sh*t, my bad mack, i posted the on the wrong thread......
 

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
You think??? Hahaha Thats funny...

My quesiton is why stick your pen in company ink?
If someone works in a division pretty far removed from you, it shouldn't matter. Only if she's a psycho chick.
 

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The other thing that's important here is that this is the mature man forum. This is a "mature" woman, meaning in her 30s. They hve different issues. I see a lot of concern about biological clocks, and if they're still single, they're likely to have been more career oriented.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well yes she is interested.

If a woman (HB7) is telling your she is lonely and you don't even know her - RED FLAGs !!! attention ***** / psycho warning !!!

Thats really a bad sign so beware.
 

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My gut reaction

is that she's a psycho poised for action.
 
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