"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She probably likes me, right?

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I saw a woman at work I hadn't seen in several years. This is because she's in a different department, I'd moved away, she works at home a lot, etc. It's a big company.

Several years ago, this lady stopped me, she demanded that I talk to her. I was more shy then than I am now. I had no concept of game whatsoever, so I was prone to walking around in my own thoughts.

Fast forward, I've lost weight, I have game, I'm not as shy. I said hi, gave her my name, we talked a little while while walking down the hall.

She essentially confessed that she was lonely and didn't have anyone to deal with at work or at home besides her dog. She seemed to catch herself doing this at the end, but it's very "I want a man" type behavior.

I think I'll ask for her number. She's an HB7 I think. yes, she does seem a little starved for attention--no not attention companionship, but that should make it easier. Is there something I could be forgetting?

Even though we work for the same company, we're so far removed, both physically and job-wise that I dont' think its' a big deal.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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an interested woman wouldn't make you ask yourself these questions
 

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sh*t, my bad mack, i posted the on the wrong thread......
 

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
You think??? Hahaha Thats funny...

My quesiton is why stick your pen in company ink?
If someone works in a division pretty far removed from you, it shouldn't matter. Only if she's a psycho chick.
 

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The other thing that's important here is that this is the mature man forum. This is a "mature" woman, meaning in her 30s. They hve different issues. I see a lot of concern about biological clocks, and if they're still single, they're likely to have been more career oriented.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well yes she is interested.

If a woman (HB7) is telling your she is lonely and you don't even know her - RED FLAGs !!! attention ***** / psycho warning !!!

Thats really a bad sign so beware.
 

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My gut reaction

is that she's a psycho poised for action.
 
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