"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she postponed the 3rd date to two weeks later. is she still interested?

johnabraham62

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Our two meetings went well. we were planning to go out tomorrow. But when i asked her she said she needs to change house this week due to landlord issue. She also had sent tge text message her landlord sent.

Then i asked her any week days. She said her classes are finishing late. Also she has exams these two weeks.

I finally asked her if i can ask her again or we are not going out. she said we can meet two weeks later. I told her i can understand the situation.

Is she avoiding me or really interested?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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slikkmeister

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She has low interest... Would she make Channing Tatum or 50 Shades of Grey guy wait.... Rollo says it best... When a girl wants to **** you she will find a way. She will crawl through barbwire or walk 20 miles through the snow.
Read the DJ bible. Read it again! Read the Rational Male and Chateau Heartiste then you'll understand!!!
 

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If you don't get laid or at least find another date or two over the next two weeks, that's on you.

You don't have to wait for her at all. You choose to.

If she sees you in a couple of weeks - fine. If she doesn't see you in a couple of weeks - fine.
 

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Moved to DJD. OP, you must show your age.

Low interest. You f**ked up somewhere in the first two dates. When a woman flakes, you have failed. If I were you, I'd go date a new woman. Two weeks later, she'll have a boyfriend.

Would she make Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise wait two weeks for a date? Would you postpone a date with Shakira or Katy Perry, barring a family emergency?

I don't f**kin' think so.

Case closed. Go ghost.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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