"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she postponed the 3rd date to two weeks later. is she still interested?

johnabraham62

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Our two meetings went well. we were planning to go out tomorrow. But when i asked her she said she needs to change house this week due to landlord issue. She also had sent tge text message her landlord sent.

Then i asked her any week days. She said her classes are finishing late. Also she has exams these two weeks.

I finally asked her if i can ask her again or we are not going out. she said we can meet two weeks later. I told her i can understand the situation.

Is she avoiding me or really interested?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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slikkmeister

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She has low interest... Would she make Channing Tatum or 50 Shades of Grey guy wait.... Rollo says it best... When a girl wants to **** you she will find a way. She will crawl through barbwire or walk 20 miles through the snow.
Read the DJ bible. Read it again! Read the Rational Male and Chateau Heartiste then you'll understand!!!
 

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If you don't get laid or at least find another date or two over the next two weeks, that's on you.

You don't have to wait for her at all. You choose to.

If she sees you in a couple of weeks - fine. If she doesn't see you in a couple of weeks - fine.
 

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Moved to DJD. OP, you must show your age.

Low interest. You f**ked up somewhere in the first two dates. When a woman flakes, you have failed. If I were you, I'd go date a new woman. Two weeks later, she'll have a boyfriend.

Would she make Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise wait two weeks for a date? Would you postpone a date with Shakira or Katy Perry, barring a family emergency?

I don't f**kin' think so.

Case closed. Go ghost.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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