"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she postponed the 3rd date to two weeks later. is she still interested?

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Our two meetings went well. we were planning to go out tomorrow. But when i asked her she said she needs to change house this week due to landlord issue. She also had sent tge text message her landlord sent.

Then i asked her any week days. She said her classes are finishing late. Also she has exams these two weeks.

I finally asked her if i can ask her again or we are not going out. she said we can meet two weeks later. I told her i can understand the situation.

Is she avoiding me or really interested?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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slikkmeister

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She has low interest... Would she make Channing Tatum or 50 Shades of Grey guy wait.... Rollo says it best... When a girl wants to **** you she will find a way. She will crawl through barbwire or walk 20 miles through the snow.
Read the DJ bible. Read it again! Read the Rational Male and Chateau Heartiste then you'll understand!!!
 

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If you don't get laid or at least find another date or two over the next two weeks, that's on you.

You don't have to wait for her at all. You choose to.

If she sees you in a couple of weeks - fine. If she doesn't see you in a couple of weeks - fine.
 

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Moved to DJD. OP, you must show your age.

Low interest. You f**ked up somewhere in the first two dates. When a woman flakes, you have failed. If I were you, I'd go date a new woman. Two weeks later, she'll have a boyfriend.

Would she make Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise wait two weeks for a date? Would you postpone a date with Shakira or Katy Perry, barring a family emergency?

I don't f**kin' think so.

Case closed. Go ghost.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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