"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She must like me

saber101

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So basically theres this girl in my english class who i think likes me. Ive known her for about a year, but havent gotten close enough to her to start DJing her til about a few weeks ago. Shes been really responsive to everything. She sits behind me in class, and we play footsy every day (which she initiates btw). I always make sexual euphamisms hinting that she wants to have sex with me. She laughs, and then when she returns this with another sexual euphamism, and when she does i call her a perv (jokingly). There isn't much kino, but sometimes for the heck of it i put my arm around her waist and or w/e, and each time shes returned it with some other form of kino. She even grabbed my ass once :D . The thing is, she might have a bf. i was looking on her nex a few days ago, and it says shes in a long term relationship. But in the one year of knowing her, i've never heard her speak of a bf. So basically

1) Do you think she likes me?
2) Should i ask her out and try and get her alone with me, even tho her nex profile says she has a bf?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rock_Solid

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Bro, you've been here for a while, I'm sure you know the answer to this question and are just looking for reassurance.

So yeah, ask her out, what's the worst that could happen, she says she has a bf?
 

Quiksilver

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If you understood girls( I say girls because to us they're pretty immature) then you'd remember that girls are like monkeys.

Like monkeys, you say? Howw????

They don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on the next.

It's their nature as females. They are insecure and are afraid that if they dump their bf and you never approach them that they will be left out in the rain. As a girl in a society where girls are conditioned to Wait for the guy to come along and "rescue" them from loneliness, they don't know how long they will have to wait before another guy comes for them.

Therefore, it is in her best interest to stay with her boyfriend until you two have some sort of relationship.

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Personal opinion from another HSer: dude, you're in the door. Ask her out, that's all there is left. If she hasn't mentioned a bf, don't worry about it, she probably just doesn't want you to know, girls like to take care of that stuff on their own. It's your job, now that you're firmly in the door, to now turn around, close it, and lock it. Oh, and then turn the lights off.

good luck
 

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saber101 said:
So basically theres this girl in my english class who i think likes me. Ive known her for about a year, but havent gotten close enough to her to start DJing her til about a few weeks ago. Shes been really responsive to everything. She sits behind me in class, and we play footsy every day (which she initiates btw). I always make sexual euphamisms hinting that she wants to have sex with me. She laughs, and then when she returns this with another sexual euphamism, and when she does i call her a perv (jokingly). There isn't much kino, but sometimes for the heck of it i put my arm around her waist and or w/e, and each time shes returned it with some other form of kino. She even grabbed my ass once :D . The thing is, she might have a bf. i was looking on her nex a few days ago, and it says shes in a long term relationship. But in the one year of knowing her, i've never heard her speak of a bf. So basically

1) Do you think she likes me?
2) Should i ask her out and try and get her alone with me, even tho her nex profile says she has a bf?
um on nex every girl i know does that. they put like "Body Builder" in the size... and Married in the Relationship and put 4'0 in height...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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