"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So basically theres this girl in my english class who i think likes me. Ive known her for about a year, but havent gotten close enough to her to start DJing her til about a few weeks ago. Shes been really responsive to everything. She sits behind me in class, and we play footsy every day (which she initiates btw). I always make sexual euphamisms hinting that she wants to have sex with me. She laughs, and then when she returns this with another sexual euphamism, and when she does i call her a perv (jokingly). There isn't much kino, but sometimes for the heck of it i put my arm around her waist and or w/e, and each time shes returned it with some other form of kino. She even grabbed my ass once :D . The thing is, she might have a bf. i was looking on her nex a few days ago, and it says shes in a long term relationship. But in the one year of knowing her, i've never heard her speak of a bf. So basically

1) Do you think she likes me?
2) Should i ask her out and try and get her alone with me, even tho her nex profile says she has a bf?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bro, you've been here for a while, I'm sure you know the answer to this question and are just looking for reassurance.

So yeah, ask her out, what's the worst that could happen, she says she has a bf?
 

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If you understood girls( I say girls because to us they're pretty immature) then you'd remember that girls are like monkeys.

Like monkeys, you say? Howw????

They don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on the next.

It's their nature as females. They are insecure and are afraid that if they dump their bf and you never approach them that they will be left out in the rain. As a girl in a society where girls are conditioned to Wait for the guy to come along and "rescue" them from loneliness, they don't know how long they will have to wait before another guy comes for them.

Therefore, it is in her best interest to stay with her boyfriend until you two have some sort of relationship.

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Personal opinion from another HSer: dude, you're in the door. Ask her out, that's all there is left. If she hasn't mentioned a bf, don't worry about it, she probably just doesn't want you to know, girls like to take care of that stuff on their own. It's your job, now that you're firmly in the door, to now turn around, close it, and lock it. Oh, and then turn the lights off.

good luck
 

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saber101 said:
So basically theres this girl in my english class who i think likes me. Ive known her for about a year, but havent gotten close enough to her to start DJing her til about a few weeks ago. Shes been really responsive to everything. She sits behind me in class, and we play footsy every day (which she initiates btw). I always make sexual euphamisms hinting that she wants to have sex with me. She laughs, and then when she returns this with another sexual euphamism, and when she does i call her a perv (jokingly). There isn't much kino, but sometimes for the heck of it i put my arm around her waist and or w/e, and each time shes returned it with some other form of kino. She even grabbed my ass once :D . The thing is, she might have a bf. i was looking on her nex a few days ago, and it says shes in a long term relationship. But in the one year of knowing her, i've never heard her speak of a bf. So basically

1) Do you think she likes me?
2) Should i ask her out and try and get her alone with me, even tho her nex profile says she has a bf?
um on nex every girl i know does that. they put like "Body Builder" in the size... and Married in the Relationship and put 4'0 in height...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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