"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She might like me but has a long-distance boyfriend in another country, now what?

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DUDE....

ASK HER OUT ALREADY !!...

Don't over analyze things.... How do you think relationships start ?... Distance be it emotional or physical open people up to look for new partners. Nothing new or wrong.... it's just the way things are.

If you don't at least try to hook up with this girl I'll personally go through the phone/tablet/computer and smack you over the head.

Who Dares Wins.... Good luck and report back of your successful date......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well like I said before I was literally about to, but this bomb the dropped on me. What is it revenge for delaying it?there's reason for me to think that I cant see how I can ask now that she told me this, so I need to hold off flirt up a bit and see if it comes up again. She seemed reclutant when she told me. I was asking various questions as I was suspicious this may have been the case and sure it enough it came up. I suspected it due to overhearing something. It only came up as I prodded around conversation wise.

See a couple days later she was in my personal space on her accord and flirty with me. It was unexpected so I need to know if she just placating me now as I am skeptical. I cant ask just yet having been sprung this. it hasn't even been a week.
 
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Troll alert

Banning requested

Other issue:
Sévère oneitis possible, betafied mâle, no social understanding

The girl probably sleeping with his friends
 
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Act like that phuck doesn't even exist. Proceed as normal and ask her to go out.
 
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Von said:
Troll alert

Banning requested

Other issue:
Sévère oneitis possible, betafied mâle, no social understanding

The girl probably sleeping with his friends
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Im not trolling, why is this no social understanding? its not oneites Im just staying on the topic. This situation is the topic
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Judge a Girl by Her Actions Not by Her Words....

Just Do it....
 
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Dingo said:
Judge a Girl by Her Actions Not by Her Words....

Just Do it....
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Yes this is true.

stringpuller said:
Hey man theres a couple of things i would recomend reading. One is the book of Pook and The Black Flag. Both good reads. Then you might not need to post this stuff.
Also SS has a **** ton of material to read.
From what i can say in street terms is you give a fck to much.
The proper way to say it is your investing to much in this or as i like to say is consumed with thought about her.
LDR can work but also like posters said your here hes there. Enough said. Dont think about that.
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Are these books on here like a PDF? I find it odd that she took forever to even mention this. I already have some idea what I'm going to do about this.
 
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stringpuller said:
I got them both for like 3 bucks a piece. Maybe one was a free pdf. It doesnt matter to me the knowledge and experience was gold. Treat yourself and digest it because its true schit.
You can come here and ask questions and its true the forum is great for things but at the end of the day is this awakening true in your own life??
As far as SS goes it doesnt take long to figure out who the great guys are and the ones you want to tune out.
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I just feel that after that I cant ask just yet. I need to determine if Im getting brushed off or not. One could say that I could ask and that would solve it

Yes true. However if I feel a massive boost of flirtiness then I will.
 
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Sdives said:
I just feel that after that I cant ask just yet. I need to determine if Im getting brushed off or not. One could say that I could ask and that would solve it

Yes true. However if I feel a massive boost of flirtiness then I will.
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Yeah OK...either you are a troll or the biggest beta ever seen on the board. Which is it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sdives said:
I'm not trolling, and I just cant go guns blazing in just yet. Not after that.
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Lol..guns blazing means asking a woman out? Pathetic...
 
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Lol..guns blazing means asking a woman out? Pathetic...
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It's a saying, plus. If I mess it up I don't want our mutual associates that know my business.
 
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Sdives said:
It's a saying, plus. If I mess it up I don't want our mutual associates that know my business.
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With the mentality you have that's a forgone conclusion you will mess it up. You've already defeated yourself before doing anything.
 
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