“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She might like me but has a long-distance boyfriend in another country, now what?

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DUDE....

ASK HER OUT ALREADY !!...

Don't over analyze things.... How do you think relationships start ?... Distance be it emotional or physical open people up to look for new partners. Nothing new or wrong.... it's just the way things are.

If you don't at least try to hook up with this girl I'll personally go through the phone/tablet/computer and smack you over the head.

Who Dares Wins.... Good luck and report back of your successful date......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well like I said before I was literally about to, but this bomb the dropped on me. What is it revenge for delaying it?there's reason for me to think that I cant see how I can ask now that she told me this, so I need to hold off flirt up a bit and see if it comes up again. She seemed reclutant when she told me. I was asking various questions as I was suspicious this may have been the case and sure it enough it came up. I suspected it due to overhearing something. It only came up as I prodded around conversation wise.

See a couple days later she was in my personal space on her accord and flirty with me. It was unexpected so I need to know if she just placating me now as I am skeptical. I cant ask just yet having been sprung this. it hasn't even been a week.
 
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Troll alert

Banning requested

Other issue:
Sévère oneitis possible, betafied mâle, no social understanding

The girl probably sleeping with his friends
 
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Act like that phuck doesn't even exist. Proceed as normal and ask her to go out.
 
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Von said:
Troll alert

Banning requested

Other issue:
Sévère oneitis possible, betafied mâle, no social understanding

The girl probably sleeping with his friends
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Im not trolling, why is this no social understanding? its not oneites Im just staying on the topic. This situation is the topic
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Judge a Girl by Her Actions Not by Her Words....

Just Do it....
 
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Dingo said:
Judge a Girl by Her Actions Not by Her Words....

Just Do it....
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Yes this is true.

stringpuller said:
Hey man theres a couple of things i would recomend reading. One is the book of Pook and The Black Flag. Both good reads. Then you might not need to post this stuff.
Also SS has a **** ton of material to read.
From what i can say in street terms is you give a fck to much.
The proper way to say it is your investing to much in this or as i like to say is consumed with thought about her.
LDR can work but also like posters said your here hes there. Enough said. Dont think about that.
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Are these books on here like a PDF? I find it odd that she took forever to even mention this. I already have some idea what I'm going to do about this.
 
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stringpuller said:
I got them both for like 3 bucks a piece. Maybe one was a free pdf. It doesnt matter to me the knowledge and experience was gold. Treat yourself and digest it because its true schit.
You can come here and ask questions and its true the forum is great for things but at the end of the day is this awakening true in your own life??
As far as SS goes it doesnt take long to figure out who the great guys are and the ones you want to tune out.
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I just feel that after that I cant ask just yet. I need to determine if Im getting brushed off or not. One could say that I could ask and that would solve it

Yes true. However if I feel a massive boost of flirtiness then I will.
 
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Sdives said:
I just feel that after that I cant ask just yet. I need to determine if Im getting brushed off or not. One could say that I could ask and that would solve it

Yes true. However if I feel a massive boost of flirtiness then I will.
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Yeah OK...either you are a troll or the biggest beta ever seen on the board. Which is it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sdives said:
I'm not trolling, and I just cant go guns blazing in just yet. Not after that.
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Lol..guns blazing means asking a woman out? Pathetic...
 
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Lol..guns blazing means asking a woman out? Pathetic...
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It's a saying, plus. If I mess it up I don't want our mutual associates that know my business.
 
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Sdives said:
It's a saying, plus. If I mess it up I don't want our mutual associates that know my business.
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With the mentality you have that's a forgone conclusion you will mess it up. You've already defeated yourself before doing anything.
 
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