Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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she likes me just as a "friend"

joe45

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went out with this girl i met randomly on the street and chatted and got her # and we went out for coffee and walk around and 2nd date had jpn food and kissed and made out in the park.
asked her to hang out with me again and she said busy, and hw and today she was out of town.
she said in her text shes likes me,but as a friend, since i asked her if she likes me since i like her.
should i still continue seeing her. i want to have sex with her since she so cute. hahah. how can i go bout doing this without being seen as a pervert just going after sex. how can i make a girl want me as a bf or lover than just a friend. i dont want to be just a friend.
should i continue seeing her and go out but at sametime be like a bf, touching , hold hands, kiss, ....etc

how can i do this. what if she goes out with me and lets me hold her hand and kiss but says we are friends-does this add up
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seems like you just want to hit it. In that case invite her out again and make moves on her till she either lets you do her or makes it very clear you are only friend material (at which time you just bail).
 

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Filed under "Why not to ask if a girl likes you."

Judge nismo sees that you put pressure on this girl by asking that. Tell her you have enough friends (Be unfazed) and continue to kino, escalate, all that good sh*t. If she rejects your advances too often, then she's just not that into you. That's my verdict.

Case closed.
 

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You dont wanna be friends with her unless shes a really great human being. Learned it the hard way.

Go for it and see if you have got alive one...
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Drop her dude...unless you can handle being friends with her.
 

Young Juan

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#1 Never ask a girl if she likes you. You ask her if she likes you by making a move and kissing her. If you made out, chances are she doesn't hate your guts. After you asked that question? Her pvssy just dried the fvck up.

Don't ever IN YOUR LIFE say some sh!t like that again.
 

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Another great example of what daytime dating can do to you. Have no idea when these guys are gonna learn.
 
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