"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she likes me just as a "friend"

joe45

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went out with this girl i met randomly on the street and chatted and got her # and we went out for coffee and walk around and 2nd date had jpn food and kissed and made out in the park.
asked her to hang out with me again and she said busy, and hw and today she was out of town.
she said in her text shes likes me,but as a friend, since i asked her if she likes me since i like her.
should i still continue seeing her. i want to have sex with her since she so cute. hahah. how can i go bout doing this without being seen as a pervert just going after sex. how can i make a girl want me as a bf or lover than just a friend. i dont want to be just a friend.
should i continue seeing her and go out but at sametime be like a bf, touching , hold hands, kiss, ....etc

how can i do this. what if she goes out with me and lets me hold her hand and kiss but says we are friends-does this add up
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Seems like you just want to hit it. In that case invite her out again and make moves on her till she either lets you do her or makes it very clear you are only friend material (at which time you just bail).
 

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Filed under "Why not to ask if a girl likes you."

Judge nismo sees that you put pressure on this girl by asking that. Tell her you have enough friends (Be unfazed) and continue to kino, escalate, all that good sh*t. If she rejects your advances too often, then she's just not that into you. That's my verdict.

Case closed.
 

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You dont wanna be friends with her unless shes a really great human being. Learned it the hard way.

Go for it and see if you have got alive one...
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Drop her dude...unless you can handle being friends with her.
 

Young Juan

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#1 Never ask a girl if she likes you. You ask her if she likes you by making a move and kissing her. If you made out, chances are she doesn't hate your guts. After you asked that question? Her pvssy just dried the fvck up.

Don't ever IN YOUR LIFE say some sh!t like that again.
 

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Another great example of what daytime dating can do to you. Have no idea when these guys are gonna learn.
 
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