"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she left the bar with her ex.. am I overreacting?

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Zarky said:
Great post, finally read something new here. Hamsters running best in silence, orbit testing, and reaching out. Three concepts I've never heard of before. Will definitely familiarize myself with those theories, especially orbit testing, which seems to happen all the time. Thanks for the post.

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Sh*t, could I have some links, if I google "orbit testing" I get a bunch of f*cking satellite web sites LOL
The word "Orbit" is very often used in the german Pick Up Scene, didnt know thats unfamiliar in the english speaking community :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yes it's quite familiar, I guess I thought the concept of "orbit testing" had some extended theory and explanation behind it ??

Links?
 

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_sideways_ said:
if you can't tolerate it why is it taking space up in your mind.

if I can't tolerate squash peas I don't even have it in my life, or think about it, or talk about how I can't have it. You know?
it's (was) taking space up in my mind because, as human beings, we all like to be sure about our choices asking for advice sometimes. That is the purpose of this forum by the way. If you had read the title of the thread, you would have understood it. You know?
 

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I know the exact feeling, joker79, and it does stay on our minds a bit even if we don't care or tolerate it. So I like what Mauser96 and pyros wrote, and your gut is right. What does it for me is this: if you know your value and the direction of your moral compass (not an afc, not a jerk, but a good dude with a heart and strength), you're the s**t- not her.

Besides, we have better things to do. :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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