franklydarling
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She knows I'm a PUA. Now what?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
LOL! This thread is very un-PUA.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
If you're such a PUA... then drop this skank and grab any other chick you want.
The Librarian
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Don't stress over it. I was actually discussing the psychology behind a lot of PUA techniques with a friend of mine and I realized: a lot of the techniques PUAs use really aren't that different from the techniques that a lot of successful naturals use. The only difference is that the PUAs actually know and can articulate what they're doing.
From your perspective, why should she get pissed at you for actually knowing what you're doing? She would have fallen for the techniques whether you knew what you were doing or whether you were a natural, so I fail to see how what you know or don't know should get you in trouble.
In fact, she ought to be flattered that you were willing to donate your valuable time to her. If you actually are a good PUA, you could have used that time to get other women.
From your perspective, why should she get pissed at you for actually knowing what you're doing? She would have fallen for the techniques whether you knew what you were doing or whether you were a natural, so I fail to see how what you know or don't know should get you in trouble.
In fact, she ought to be flattered that you were willing to donate your valuable time to her. If you actually are a good PUA, you could have used that time to get other women.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She's upset that the attractive you isn't really you. Who can blame her.franklydarling said:So, I've been seeing/f***ing this girl for a few months now and she just busted me for being a PUA. She figured out my DJ alias and knows that I was pretty deep in the PUA community for several years. Apparently, she read through all the info about RSD and MM and read The Game and now is pointing out things that I used on her. She's upset and we're gonna talk about this face-to-face in the next few days. (I was out of town when she figured all of this stuff out.) I do like her, but am not sure if this situation can be salvaged. Advice?
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Whatever you do, don't get on the defensive. Have a laugh about it.
It's up to her to take you or leave you. This is how you show her you're "for real."
It's up to her to take you or leave you. This is how you show her you're "for real."