"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She Is Getting Very Angry.

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giovannikast

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My friends
I have a girlfriend since two months ago. She is in love with me, and told me this. Well, I think I am in love wit her, but I dont like too much the idea of going with her more than n weekends, and sometimes I just call her a couple of hours before we go out.
The problem is that when I call her she is always angry with me, and when we see, she is always silence, angry. She does not want to admite it and then I have to please her to make her feel good and open again. Well, the thing is that I would like to handle better this kind of situation without have to yield ther.
I need to hear your good advices, my friends. Thanks.
Giovanni
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if she won't tell you what's wrong and you have no idea what's wrong, it seems like you got a head case on your hands. there is no reason for a b|tch to act that way. i'd next her real quick.
 
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SheGetAngry because I dont call her

Well, thanks for your advice, Knicknack.
But the last time she told me she was angry with me because I had not called her before, she missed me.:) :) :)
 
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Freeze her out and give her the silent treatment. Females Aren’t used to that.
 
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she's a head case just like my ex.:D

seriously, why doesnt SHE call when she misses you?:confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
she's a head case just like my ex.:D

seriously, why doesnt SHE call when she misses you?:confused:
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exactly... why the double standard ?
 
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Sometimes fellow DJs... some women are undateable/non-relationship types. Think it's time you start having your dating options "open" now and seek other women, cause usually women like this start making it worse and worse.
 
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Hi
Thanks for your opinions, guys, but sometimes she calls me and doesnt find me, thats why she gets angry. At first I did not care about that, but sometimes I get angry because of this situation. I would wanna keep cool the all thing.
I would like to read an opinion about it, guys.
Giovanni


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