Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She Is Getting Very Angry.

giovannikast

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Hi
My friends
I have a girlfriend since two months ago. She is in love with me, and told me this. Well, I think I am in love wit her, but I dont like too much the idea of going with her more than n weekends, and sometimes I just call her a couple of hours before we go out.
The problem is that when I call her she is always angry with me, and when we see, she is always silence, angry. She does not want to admite it and then I have to please her to make her feel good and open again. Well, the thing is that I would like to handle better this kind of situation without have to yield ther.
I need to hear your good advices, my friends. Thanks.
Giovanni
:) :) :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Knicknack

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if she won't tell you what's wrong and you have no idea what's wrong, it seems like you got a head case on your hands. there is no reason for a b|tch to act that way. i'd next her real quick.
 

giovannikast

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SheGetAngry because I dont call her

Well, thanks for your advice, Knicknack.
But the last time she told me she was angry with me because I had not called her before, she missed me.:) :) :)
 

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Freeze her out and give her the silent treatment. Females Aren’t used to that.
 

DJ Alejandro

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she's a head case just like my ex.:D

seriously, why doesnt SHE call when she misses you?:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
she's a head case just like my ex.:D

seriously, why doesnt SHE call when she misses you?:confused:
exactly... why the double standard ?
 

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Sometimes fellow DJs... some women are undateable/non-relationship types. Think it's time you start having your dating options "open" now and seek other women, cause usually women like this start making it worse and worse.
 

giovannikast

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Shecallsme

Hi
Thanks for your opinions, guys, but sometimes she calls me and doesnt find me, thats why she gets angry. At first I did not care about that, but sometimes I get angry because of this situation. I would wanna keep cool the all thing.
I would like to read an opinion about it, guys.
Giovanni


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