"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She is bothering me ...

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faiNt`

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So this ugly girl won't leave me alone. I'm sure many of you have had the same problem. She gets work done though, so I kind of need her. It's my Senior year I can't be bothered actually doing sh*t.

How do I get her to stop messaging me on facebook and asking me about my social life. It's really f*cking annoying. It's painfully obvious that she has nothing going on in her life and wants to hang out.

Example

"What exciting stuff are you doing blah blah blah weekend?"
"This and that"
"Sounds like you will have fun .."
"Yup"

TL;DR - How do I make her stop talking to me without pissing her off so she doesn't do work?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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eaglez1177

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Just keep on saying you have to go or you cant talk...she'll get the point eventually. And there is a button on facebook that lets you appear as offline.
 
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you can even put her in a specific list away from everyone else and just appear offline to her if you want.

you're not the first to have this happen :p
 
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YogurtSlinger

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Pump and dump. She might be ugly, but I'm sure she is better looking than your hand.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CaptainJ

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lol when an ug started writing on my facebook wall, i humoured her for one response, but ignored her afterwards. Just ignore her and she'll get the idea.
 
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