"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She is bothering me ...

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faiNt`

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So this ugly girl won't leave me alone. I'm sure many of you have had the same problem. She gets work done though, so I kind of need her. It's my Senior year I can't be bothered actually doing sh*t.

How do I get her to stop messaging me on facebook and asking me about my social life. It's really f*cking annoying. It's painfully obvious that she has nothing going on in her life and wants to hang out.

Example

"What exciting stuff are you doing blah blah blah weekend?"
"This and that"
"Sounds like you will have fun .."
"Yup"

TL;DR - How do I make her stop talking to me without pissing her off so she doesn't do work?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eaglez1177

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Just keep on saying you have to go or you cant talk...she'll get the point eventually. And there is a button on facebook that lets you appear as offline.
 
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you can even put her in a specific list away from everyone else and just appear offline to her if you want.

you're not the first to have this happen :p
 
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YogurtSlinger

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Pump and dump. She might be ugly, but I'm sure she is better looking than your hand.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CaptainJ

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lol when an ug started writing on my facebook wall, i humoured her for one response, but ignored her afterwards. Just ignore her and she'll get the idea.
 
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