"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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faiNt`

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So this ugly girl won't leave me alone. I'm sure many of you have had the same problem. She gets work done though, so I kind of need her. It's my Senior year I can't be bothered actually doing sh*t.

How do I get her to stop messaging me on facebook and asking me about my social life. It's really f*cking annoying. It's painfully obvious that she has nothing going on in her life and wants to hang out.

Example

"What exciting stuff are you doing blah blah blah weekend?"
"This and that"
"Sounds like you will have fun .."
"Yup"

TL;DR - How do I make her stop talking to me without pissing her off so she doesn't do work?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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eaglez1177

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Just keep on saying you have to go or you cant talk...she'll get the point eventually. And there is a button on facebook that lets you appear as offline.
 
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you can even put her in a specific list away from everyone else and just appear offline to her if you want.

you're not the first to have this happen :p
 
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YogurtSlinger

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Pump and dump. She might be ugly, but I'm sure she is better looking than your hand.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CaptainJ

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lol when an ug started writing on my facebook wall, i humoured her for one response, but ignored her afterwards. Just ignore her and she'll get the idea.
 
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