"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She is bothering me ...

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faiNt`

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So this ugly girl won't leave me alone. I'm sure many of you have had the same problem. She gets work done though, so I kind of need her. It's my Senior year I can't be bothered actually doing sh*t.

How do I get her to stop messaging me on facebook and asking me about my social life. It's really f*cking annoying. It's painfully obvious that she has nothing going on in her life and wants to hang out.

Example

"What exciting stuff are you doing blah blah blah weekend?"
"This and that"
"Sounds like you will have fun .."
"Yup"

TL;DR - How do I make her stop talking to me without pissing her off so she doesn't do work?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eaglez1177

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Just keep on saying you have to go or you cant talk...she'll get the point eventually. And there is a button on facebook that lets you appear as offline.
 
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you can even put her in a specific list away from everyone else and just appear offline to her if you want.

you're not the first to have this happen :p
 
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YogurtSlinger

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Pump and dump. She might be ugly, but I'm sure she is better looking than your hand.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol when an ug started writing on my facebook wall, i humoured her for one response, but ignored her afterwards. Just ignore her and she'll get the idea.
 
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